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Date Posted: 01:51:50 05/18/16 Wed
Author: Patti ("many made it work"?)
Subject: Re: Update
In reply to: Vicky 's message, "Re: Update" on 08:36:45 05/17/16 Tue

Statistically, those who "make it work" are the couples who have no small children at home OR have no children at home. In addition, the longevity for MOMs is less than about 5 years post disclosure.

That said, you made it clear that you don't believe in marriage and the idea of sharing him with others is not an issue. Just remember that he has now made you the sexual partner of every one of his partners and every one of their partners and every one of their partners and their partners.

It isn't being a "naysayer" at all. It's reality.

Certainly are you both adults are more than capable of making your own decisions. From a psychological standpoint, this arrangement has the potential to model some very confusing behaviors for your child/ren, relative to the relationship between a "husband and wife". They're watching and listening to everything.

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