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Date Posted: 11:16:56 05/25/16 Wed
Author: Still Wondering (Please don't have sex with him)
Subject: Re: My husband is a bisexual cross dresser
In reply to: Veronica 's message, "My husband is a bisexual cross dresser" on 00:47:57 05/25/16 Wed

There is a good answer to your comment about the fact you know he's not cross dressing because he now has a beard - He's stopped the dressing up and has gone to full on gay man instead. He's on craig's list!! I completely understand wanting to take some time and think about it and keep the same level of life you've been living. But are 'things' worth it? Is your lifestyle important enough to live with a man who is meeting strangers on craig's list behind your back? My neighbor was a married gay man with a family who knew nothing about it. Well, they and the entire neighborhood found out when we came home to police tape and his dead body inside the house. While his wife was away he was out picking up gay strangers. This was a 62 year old man. One of them killed him, robbed his house, and left him for his wife to find. This is the kind of thing you will have to look forward to if you continue on this path.

Please listen to me. I NEVER found the amount of proof you did. I never found craig's list ads or had anything other than an admission of bi-curious and some gay porn and dildos and I STILL ended up with herpes. I think your lack of desire for him was more than the result of your surgery. I think deep down you were incredibly bothered (as you should be) by him cross dressing.

Just as mine did, yours has a job where he travels. Assuming for one minute that he hasn't been hooking up with people on craig's list...what do you think is happening when he's away?? Stress relief? Non-gay men relieve stress by having a beer, playing sports, or having sex with their wife - NOT by dressing up as a woman. I'm so sorry if this sounds harsh but have you read what you wrote? What if your best friend told you this and then told you she planned to have sex with this man?? Please think of yourself and your future. I am living proof that "but I never acted on it" was complete horse shit!! And I believed it because I never ever saw an email or a craig's list ad. I'm lucky that all I ended up with was herpes. Please please don't do this. And if you must, then wear protection.

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Re: My husband is a bisexual cross dresser -- Rob (good luck), 15:50:25 05/25/16 Wed