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Subject: Al C., How Could The Aide Have Done A Better Job?


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Barbara
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Date Posted: 05:40:54 11/01/09 Sun
In reply to: Carol 's message, "Unnecessary exposure" on 16:45:20 10/21/09 Wed

Al C., you said you thought the young lady who was shaving you handled your penis in a manner that was different than you had expected. How would you have expected her to handle your penis, given the fact that she was assigned to do your preoperative shave and had to reach all of the area?

I am not disagreeing with you, but I am curious to know if there is a way the young lady could have done this job in a way that would be more suitable from your point of view. If any nurse or aide happens to read your comments they just might learn a way to make their male patients more comfortable.

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Al C.
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Date Posted: 08:36:09 11/01/09 Sun

Barbara, I'm not sure what to say. Assuming you have experience handling penises at some points in your life, aren't you aware of how different techniques would tend to increase or decrease chances for an erection? For my part, the only thing I can think of is to handle it as little as possible. The more touching = more stimulation = greater likelihood. So, maybe just with the fingertips, or even indirectly with a towel. On the other hand I realize that too much of that would likely get in the way of doing the job, so I don't know what I would recommend. Plus she was a quite pretty girl, doe-eyed and well groomed, so I wouldn't want her to change in that department. And please let me add, I was not unhappy about what happened. Slightly embarrassed at first, but when I realized she was not the brightest kid in the class I sort of felt compassion for her more than anything else. She had a look of determination on her face, and it was a little screwed up as if she was concentrating, likely on not cutting me. (I certainly would not want her to forget that!) As I said, I think she was new at it. And anyway, after she was gone it seemed humorous. I told a couple of guys about it months later and we all had a few laughs. One guy thought she did it intentionally, but I don't. I really think she was just doing her job as efficiently as she could and holding my penis the ways she did was what she knew and it made it easier for her.

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Steve M
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Date Posted: 00:11:31 11/07/09 Sat

In my experience, during examinations the penis is usually handled by grasping between the thumb and forefinger of one hand. That is how the nurse who shaved me for surgery did it, but the sensation of her thumb pressing on the sensitive underside of the penis was physically stimulating, and I quickly became fully erect.

I think this is a normal reaction and almost inevitable in that situation.

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