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Date Posted: 07:41:01 06/22/01 Fri
Author: G
Subject: Good Morning, *smooch*, and I'm so glad about our conversation(s) too *hug*

Proof that they made me feel so much better is that tonight I slept blissfully, deep and long, and didn't wake up before it was time to get dk ready for school. *smile*. What a big change, and I'm so glad we worked it out once again. :-)

Maybe I should keep notes of all ideas for domestic prattle which come to mind at all times, so that I can meet your wish of being prattled at *cheeky grin*. But honestly, I'm so happy that you don't mind if I do this a lot, and you even tell me you appreciate it. See what an awesome dude you are ?

It's so sweet of you to keep these cards handy, this was we can have a real good long talk, and I need many of these. *hug*. I think you are very right about the peculiar control angle that the women of our mothers' generation have. Never give shit to the husband, but satisfy all your controlling needs with your kids. Dunno about yours, but mine had a very annoying GENERALIZED worshipping for males. Like, when the bike was broken, I remember she wanted to ask the neighbor's son, and it was always 'da muss man die Männer fragen'... (when I think back to this I get a feeling like you have when you hear chalk screeching on a blackboard). 'Die Männer' - the most important thing in her life. Once she said something about the time I had left home (don't remember what it was), and she said she was so BUSY, she still had THREE MEN (with great emphasis on men) at home. To me none of these pricks qualifies as a man really, they are nothing but fucking spoiled brats, conceited, full-of-themselves assholes who only got this far in their pathetic lives because they always had the willing doormat handy who put her hands under their ugly feet. - I am so very satisfied and happy that I never fit in to THAT dirty mould, and that for me always my kid came first. - Hey, but I think dk knows that I sometimes go overboard... Something funny happened this morning. I was sitting next to her on her couch, and she was getting ready for school. She was looking at the telly, facing away from me and sat down. Sat down on my hand which was lying there, but she hadn't seen it. When she apologized I said it didn't matter, and she continued (for me)...'yeah and if you (=her) had broken it, I wouldn't mind, because it would have been you who has done it'. *sigh* - she's figured me out quite well. But then I still think a loving parent is better than a parent who doesn't give a shit.

I think the ignoring attitude is a good one if you don't want to constantly fight your V. Besides she should be used to it from the other males in the family like her brother/your uncle. And it helps you to stay in control and fluffy, because you just don't LET her accuse you or give you shit when you stay remote and non-communicative.

SB is getting ready, and I'm looking forward to our phone talk, hope it's going to be soon. *smile*. Thank you for staying around, this is the best thing that could happen to me. *wave* and *K**K**K* right back to you. *hug*

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