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Date Posted: Fri June 06, 2003 22:57:16
Author: 丞相
Subject: Re: 棄兔追鹿 當然合理
In reply to: 淇少俠 's message, "棄兔追鹿 當然合理" on Mon June 02, 2003 00:35:46

(以下的’你’是指子淇)
這本來就不是甚麼理論,只是隨口作出來的藉口,自然錯漏百出。
你認為不應該追求朋友的女朋友,這只是你一相情願的想法而已。
你常以為朋友間義氣很重要,很對不起,我跟本不知義氣為何物。
但我想你你誤解了我所說的放手一試。
(以下的’你’是指戀愛熱線)
我的意思並不是要你用甚麼陰謀詭計去拆散人家或勾引人家閨女,而是直接的告訴你所喜歡的人,去認識她,去關心她。
甚至不妨告訴你的朋友,如果他連別人喜歡他的女朋友都忍受不了,這種朋友不要也罷。
這樣對三方都有好處。
首先,不論她喜歡你與否,女孩子被人喜歡,總是一件快樂的事。
能讓你喜歡的女孩子快樂就已是好事。
對你朋友也是一件好事,如果你直接的坦白的告訴他,他應不會認為你不夠朋友。
畢竟,女朋友受歡迎是一件足以自豪的事。
這同時給與他一個機會再評估他們的關係。
他是會因為有競爭而更珍惜還是不再浪費青春。
當然,這只是假設那位朋友很理智。
還是那一句,如這人只知意氣用事,甚至不懂珍惜一位坦白的朋友,這種朋友不要也罷!
當然這對你也有好處。
首先是可以放下心頭大石。
同時也可以知道那女孩對你的看法,不用瞎猜,引致誤會。
同時,你對朋友坦白,不能再感到內疚。
何樂而不為?

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