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Date Posted: 03:19:21 07/26/02 Fri
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someone that loves and hates girls
's message, "GIRLS ARE COMPLICATED" on 00:11:41 07/26/02 Fri
Okey~Dokey! This is what I think and how I feel about the subject matter. So for all you gurLs & guys out there who read this…pweaaseee don’t get mad! First of all, what everyone is saying, especially the guys, is just a bigg generalization on the female population! You all just think ALL gurLs are born like that and have all that stuff in their nature. Wrong! Lotsa stuff can make a gurL seem as bad as you described! The way they were brought up…old fashion way for example. Their past relationships with total jerks and losers make them more careful and change thier attitude towards future guys. Guys dunno what goes on in a gurL’s head. I have to admit, sometimes us gurLs are a bit complex and hard to understand. But that’s what makes us soo interesting and fascinating. Guys just don’t give the time or day to really get to know us as much as we want them to. So they come up with all these silly conclusions in their heads! Like I said to Alvin, it is the 21st Century and like the rules are totally changing! GurLs are different now than in the oldie days. GurLs may have seem shy and everything before and always wanted the guys to make the first moves and everything, but its 2002, and gurLs have come out of their shy shells. Its now the guys’ turn to become shy. I’ve known gurLs who’ve asked a guy to prom and make the first move to break the ice because the guys were too shy to do so! And there’s nothing wrong with that! So what if it is mutual…that means it wouldn’t matter who does what! Both the gurL and guy have nothing to lose! It is true that gurLs wanna feel special, but if she really wants something, especially happiness and love, she’ll get it herself and not wait for the guy to bring it to her front door. GurLs just don’t jog after their happiness and dreams…they chase after them! Guys are slow-pokes! Hehehe! And there’s always the question of “Who loves who more in a relationship!” Can you really measure out your love??? Does it even matter??? As long as you 2 love each other! Making sure it is sorta balanced and not a total one-way relationship than it should work out rather than arguing over it. There are soo many different types of gurLs out there that each one is different from the next! Maybe the one all you guys dated were bad…but the ones I know, myself included, cherish relationships and don’t try to break ‘em! GurLs are not heart-breakers at all. We’re just afraid that our hearts are gonna be broke and that’s why we’re sometimes hard on you guys! But you guys ARE guys, you’re not suppose to mind! Some gurLs mite be a lil weird, like me, and different from the rest, but most of them do have morals and aren’t totally whacked! We want good relationships too! So we wouldn’t cause problems and treat the guy badly. And when a problem does come up, at least gurLs want to sit down and talk it out while guys are just like whatevers…! Haha! And yeah…gurLs shouldn’t have to go to the bathroom alone or watch a scary movie uncompanied! Its something that’s in all gurLs. Guys should know that! Come on…make your lady feel somewhat special and loved by you! We would do the same for you! Rather than you guys holding us during a scary movie, we’ll be the ones holding you! GurLs have a caring nature for everything. That’s why we can make babies! We’re responsible and have that caring and sweet side in us. Not the guys don’t, they just need to learn to show it more often! Oh yeah…something important! Guys can have a sensitive side too! Not only gurLs can be sensitive and shed some tears! It’s OKAY to cry guys! No shame in that! You guys have feelings too! What’s so bad about crying! Its not like we’re gonna laugh our heads off! We’ll just be like “Awwww…..he has a sensitive side to him!” And respect it! All in all…GurLs aren’t bad at all!…Neither are SOME guys. We each have our good qualities…and the sense of wanting to be loved! I’ve always believed that we all are born with half of us missing and its our mission in life to go around looking for our other half. If we find our other half, we become a whole and live happily ever after. If we don’t, then we’re always gonna have something missing inside of us. So when you guys finally someday find your other half, then there you go! No more complaints about the opposite sex! Some perfect gurL just for you to love! Hehehe! Hey…this was pretty fun! I thought I had more to say, but I can’t think of it right now! I'll post up other things when I think of them! And plus…this was wayyyyyyy too long! Hope it at least changes some of your views on GurLs after reading it! And hope you guys find your other half someday and live happily ever after just like Cinderella! *Hehehe*
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