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Subject: 發脾四


Author:
小珊子
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Date Posted: 19:46:30 11/07/05 Mon

一個星期多沒有見面,本以為星期六可以好好的過一個愉快的週末,但結果我們卻"冷戰"了,整晚我和你說不夠十句話......有人還發脾氣了......

可能這陣子工作太大壓力吧,身體又不好,已經不是太開心,再加上你說的話.....可能有時你會覺得我因為好小事而嬲,又或者你覺得自己只是說笑,不用那麼認真......不過......我希望你可以體諒我,有些事我是不能說笑的.....你識我咁耐應該知道.....而且,我覺得你應該尊重我的感受......

或者這一排我的信心也下降了.....我也明白有時自己會胡思亂想.....但我絕不希望因為一些小事而影響我們,你明白嗎?!

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[> Subject: 珍惜身邊的人


Author:
阿強
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Date Posted: 22:21:26 11/12/05 Sat

部要到失去後才去後悔哦

多D溝通, 才能夠令對方明白自己哦

不要以為在一起很久, 對方就會明白你的感受
有時候, 說出來, 會比埋藏在心裡好很多呢

不妨多點坦誠的對話吧

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[> [> Subject: 有時候不是關於"說不說出來"的問題


Author:
小珊子
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Date Posted: 19:16:01 11/17/05 Thu

熟我既人都知道,我喜怒哀樂是在面上的,我不會去隱藏,我只會表現出來,但有時表現了出來也是沒有用......

我想這不是溝通出現問題,而是人的本身問題

我知有時候我會過份胡思亂想,將不太可能發生的事,會想到好像將會發生一樣.....但過後我會反問自己,為什麼我會這樣想?!其實答案很簡單,我對人沒有信心......有時可以從人的行為而觀察到他的思想,
如果他不是做了一些令我覺得沒有信心的行為,我是不會這樣擔憂的....或者只可以說我是某些時侯會擔憂,如身邊有不好的例子出現了,我便會聯想起自己也會有這一天.....可能是我太過神經質,又或者是我根本沒有安心的感覺,總覺得世事難料,人心更加變幻莫測.....

不知道是否長期生活在人事複雜的公司,變得對任何人也沒有信心,什至連身邊親近的人也抱著防範的心.....我不想這樣,對於知己好友,我是百份百信任的,但反而比較親近的人卻.....

究竟是你的問題,還是我的問題?!

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[> [> [> Subject: ^O^


Author:
閒雲野鶴~小逵~
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Date Posted: 22:55:56 11/19/05 Sat

好多野唔好睇得咁緊, 留一些空間比對方
一張A4紙如果寫滿哂野, 只係比人覺得"緊密"既感覺。
每段之間, 隔些空位, 書寫及閱讀雙方, 都會舒服D
你覺得隔一行就夠, 可以你既讀者, 覺得隔兩行先夠。

互相了解對方需要既時侯, 唔好計較邊個負出多, 邊個負出少,

如果愛都要用單位黎量, 就冇咩意義喇....

逵~~

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