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Date Posted: 16:40:36 10/25/04 Mon
Author: rick
Subject: father rights

I have been divorced for 3 years, i live in NC...i let my ex move with my 15month old daughter to IL...i have agreed to not be part of her life until my child was old enough to understand...well she is now 5 1/2 and her mother makes all kinds of excuses to not let me or my childs siblings see or know of her..i do not have the money to hire an attorney 1000 miles away.... i offered to start paying child support ( which the ex never wanted) in an attempt to persued her to let us know my child...who can help me in the legal department from state to state without asking me for tons of money i dont have up-front? doesnt a father at the very least have a right to know his daughter? no court gave my ex any rights to hide her from us as she has done..i have never been abusive or anything to to her or any of my children, i dont do drugs and i dont drink ...i love my daughter and she doesnt even know i exist...help me please.............Rick Oddon...............Rockync7@yahoo.com

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[> Re: father rights -- diane harbottle, 13:42:29 11/10/04 Wed

hi there, i was so sorry to read your story, you do have the right to know your daughter and i hope the law does change, they always think men are the bad guys it is not fair at all,
my mother left home when i was 11 years old, and i was lucky because by the time it got to court i was old enough to chose who i wanted to live with i stayed with my dad and it did me no harm what so ever, i think it is law that you have access arangements and one it has been to court you can not change the days unless the child is ill or somthing,
men are so un fairly treated, i am a lady but i know what is like as my dad had to fight for me. my father was told he could have custody of me on the understanding that my mother was given reasonable access i thought this should work both ways, I hope and pray the law gets changed and quick, we need our dads in our lives too, people dont relise what it is like for a child to feel piggy in the middle where one parent is down grading the other been so scared of hurting either party, you could try to get advice from a citizens idvice beuro or somthing it is free i think.
anyway sorry to of troubled you,
i am one person willing to stand up for fathers rights.

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