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Date Posted: 26/11/09 7:36:37pm
Author: Peter Eveleigh
Subject: Re: who was in CONTROL really?
In reply to: Sarah Hughes 's message, "Re: who was in CONTROL really?" on 26/11/09 11:57:31am

>>
>>>Talked to Pete E, read all the arguments and done all
>>>the human emotions... All i can say is.. GOD IS IN
>>>CONTROL.
>>
>>Who was in control the day after you texted me around
>>midnight to ask me to set up the Jesus Army Dialogue
>>on facebook in your name and mine.....when you decided
>>all of a sudden that you didn't want to root out abuse
>>in the JA from the inside after all but that you had
>>been deceived by an evil influence (that would be me,
>>I presume?)and demanded that I take your name off the
>>site?
>>
>>Not God, I would suggest
>Like i've said many times Pete, I don't answer to you
>or anyone else, and i have explained my reasons, you
>choose not to believe them or twist them to suit your
>bitterness. I'm sorry you can't handle me forgiving
>and moving on in my life, and choosing to go back to a
>very different and radical, young church but my choice
>means i never end up in 20 years like you so that in
>itself makes me happy. If it makes you happy, and
>content to think of me as a downtrodden, weak woman
>who kisses the feet of men, please think this. I just
>love a God you choose not to believe in, no more, no
>less..


your reason for changing your mind was that you suddenly felt that you were neglecting your role as a mother. Overnight, you changed from someone passionate about chaning the JA from the inside, keen to meet me and talk strategy, keen to get Ali to come for a drink etc, keen to set up the Dialogue (see my blog where you can see the very message where Sarah suggested it)etc etc

then the day after the Dialogue was started, there you were saying you thought that your children were being neglected and you couldn't be involved.

Even when you were mad keen on the Dialogue project you had said you had forgiven the people who had beaten you etc, but that was never the issue, which was that you knew that many people had been hurt but had not been apologisedd to as you had, and you knew that lots of the people who had approved of you being hit were in control of the fellowship and still approve of corporal punishment, which you admitted still went on

using the forgiveness as an excuse now is all a bit too retrospective and disingenuous

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  • Kissing the feet of men? -- Barbara, 4/12/09 2:05:20pm
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