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Date Posted: 21:27:22 06/11/03 Wed
Author: Julie Sexton
Author Host/IP: acs-24-154-129-254.zoominternet.net / 24.154.129.254
Subject: Re: School Daze Revisited.............
In reply to: Doug King 's message, "School Daze Revisited............." on 00:32:30 06/10/03 Tue

>Not much left to be said here, other than.......it is
>now 2003 and the high school days are officially over
>for a lot of us. Apparently, the issues
>remain....according to Barbie.
>My advice would be (because I care), if you are so
>adamant about voicing your grievances, then let's
>direct the grievances to the responsible parties and
>get it off of your ches, for once and for all. Noone
>here really cares about what happened in the past.
>Enough time has passed, that we should be over those
>issues. Noone was ever really popular and cliques were
>created by a lot of different groups, to sort of cope
>with adolescence and each of our own
>inadequacies......a lot of which some of us still
>contend with. Who was it that broke your heart and
>bent you so badly that you insist on littering the
>message boards with incessant whining? Constipation of
>thoughts usually leads to diarrhea of the
>mouth......of which I am guilty of, sometimes. If I
>chose to dwell on the past and find some vengeful
>means to get back at a lot of these f@ckers, then I
>not only wasted valuable precious time, but I would
>have ended up behind bars. Simply put, I just don't
>care enough about the past to try and rewrite it. I've
>changed, they've changed and you're gonna have to
>start dealing with people on their own face value, as
>well as your own. Some people are quite content with
>flipping burgers, some folks I know, are still living
>with mommy and daddy (no offemse to anyone)
>I guess all I am really trying to say, is get it off
>of your chest and get over it. There were plenty of
>times, that I felt not included, but I don't need
>those fools to validate my existence and vice versa.
>Ya feel me?

Amen Doug!!!! As usual you are right on the mark. I have discovered over the years that people who usually live in the past are so unhappy with their present lives that they have to go back in the past to try to find someone/something to blame instead of looking in the mirror.

There is not a one of us who had not been picked on at some point during our school days nor is there not one of us who did not belong to a particular group or click. It's all part of growing up. I can only say this: remember it, GET OVER IT, and move on. Live in the present NOT IN THE PAST or you will never be able to move forward.

and by the way, if I'm not mistaken this same person came into the last forum we had and posted a similar message. it's getting old.

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