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Subject: Re: A Few Questions on Ground Rules

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Julie

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Date Posted: 04:16:10 05/25/04 Tue

They're pigs!
I know how you feel though, I too started doing a little extra housework to be nice while my employer was ill and it has since been assumed I will always do this extra housework. I am a live-in nanny so it's hard to get around that feeling of needing to do the extra all the time now.

Back to your family, it is just plain nasty that anyone is so lazy they cannot put their own dishes in the dishwasher, put away their own food, etc. I can honestly understand them having you do the dishwasher unload (provided they start it when it is full and do not have time to unload before work). Being too lazy to unload and then piling dirty dishes in the sink until you unload it is gross. I personally do not do my families laundry, none of it, but I can understand them having you do the kids but I don't see how it has to be done so often, unless their are a lot of kids or they are really young and need several outfits a day.
I would talk with your employer and tell her that you don't feel it is right for her to put you in the position of housekeeper (at least without a raise!) and you feel they are taking adavatage because when you started you had *X* responsibilities and now they expect *2X* to be done without compensation. If the civil discusion doesn't work then you need to evaluate whether you are happy there or need a new work environment.
Good luck!

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