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Subject: Re: I Feel so Awful

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Pat

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Date Posted: 00:57:44 02/27/07 Tue
In reply to: Ashley 's message, "I Feel so Awful" on 00:12:52 02/25/07 Sun

Ashley,

Having sex with someone who wasn't committed to you was how this whole thing got started. If you want to keep him, the LAST thing you should do is go back to having sex with him! After what you have been through, if he doesn't respect you enough to wait, you need to find someone else. You are bonded to him because of the sexual activity, and it will hurt, but believe me, it won't hurt half as much as it will if you continue down this path. Tell him that you have thought about it, and you think you should stop acting out sexually, that you learned something. If he leaves, he wouldn't be good for you anyway.

Try to find a different job.

Please seek out some counseling. Find a crisis pregnancy agency in your area. They have programs to help you work through this. You can find one near you by going here:

www.pregnancycenters.org

Please move to restore your self-respect.

We are praying for you, and we will be here for you any time.

Hugs,
Pat

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