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Date Posted: 22:59:13 08/10/10 Tue
Author: EC
Subject: rigidity vs flexibility

I used to be flexible. When things happen, I respond to them and solve them.
Now, I freak out. When things happen, it also means that I have to reorganize my whole schedule.
I used to be flexible in dealing with different people. I accept that there is different working style. I can negotiate with them and compromise.
Now, I got frustrated by them. Especially when they don't respond me in a timely manner and I have to wait to work on the next step until they get back to me, I can't tolerate their procrastination. I sometime even feel resentful towards them.
These changes happen all because of my packed schedule. The schedule is so packed that I can't even have room for uncertainties. Since I wanna have my flexibility back and I don't want to hate people, I've decided to take out sth from my schedule. The second question will be: what should I take out from my schedule? It will take me some times....

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