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Date Posted: 14:33:50 08/17/10 Tue
Author: EC
Subject: 讚賞

縱使知道方向正確，縱使知道為什麼而努力，我仍然渴望得到認同，得到讚賞。讀碩士的時候，最感動的時刻是當我知道指導老師想收我讀博士，那份對我的認同，到現在我還是刻骨銘心。

讀博士做研究的過程實在太長，眼看見的是一個又一個比自己能幹的人，拼命地追著一個又一個的目標，換來的只是一瞬間的滿足，然後又繼續看著自己未實現的。就在不知道自己走在什麼方向的時候，一位坐輪椅的老師對我說，相比一年前，我的英文寫作方法有明顯的進步，這個肯定就像是一個擁抱，讓飢寒交迫的我得到一點温暖。

然後是一封電郵，當我對老師說著有興趣參予更多他的研究，他不但給我一個�YES�，還有一大段鼓勵的說話，讓我知道他也同樣渴望與我一同工作，這不單是一個温暖，而且是給我食糧，讓我在這乾旱無水之地得到飽足。對，為著自己的夢想而努力，是一件樂事，但我深知道我並不是那種獨自上路的人，我需要扶持我的人，我需要與我玩樂的人，我需要聆聽我的人，我需要很多很多，然後我才可以繼續的向前走。

一個很老套的體會，原來我的夢想真的不只是我的夢想，我終於明白，終有一天，當我站在人生的舞台上，向眾人致謝，我想到的不只是我已經做到的，而是一段路程和所有曾在這段路程出現的人與物。

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[> �Q�R�Q�R -- Debby, 09:24:39 08/29/10 Sun

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[> [> Re: �Q�R�Q�R -- EC, 14:47:02 09/14/10 Tue

wow haven't contacted you for ages. How's everything going?

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[> �ڿ� -- ernus, 10:15:07 09/17/10 Fri

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