<font color = red> I've been through these episodes myself dear....read on... -- . : : O U R P L A C E: : .

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I've been through these episodes myself dear....read on...

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chez

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Date Posted: 19:22:23 06/23/03 Mon
In reply to: MBA guy 's message, "time out..i need love advice ---just me MBA guy" on 17:24:20 06/23/03 Mon

Hey, chill out. I know how you feel right now, coz I have been through such relationship as well. I too have been so much in love with a guy 2 years younger than me. I have sacrificed so much for him but it ended so soon. The relationship ended with him leaving me in tears for quite a while. Well, he is not that good looking but I love him dearly. He actually plays basketball for La Salle. And I think fame took him away from me. I was fortunate to have my family to support me through this ordeal. Yes, my family knows about him and is not againsts him for he was nice to them as well. Until now, I still love him. And I never stop expressing my feelings to him even through text. Unfortunately he doesn't reply anymore. I am shattered for what has happened. I have supported him in all his endeavours but he left me just like that. All my friends advised me to get him out of my system. But it just wont do. It pisses me when I see him play on t.v. for it reminds me more of how far we are from each other now. I love him dearly. But maybe this is the penalty for loving a STRAIGHT guy. I share your sentiments deary.. And I pray that you'll find someone better soon.

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Hi there MBA Guy - based on my experience, I guess when you love someone, you must not give your 100% - maybe you can only give 99% if you love him too much - at least kahit papano kung mawawala sya you still have 1% left for you na pwede mo pang palaguin uli as time goes by. Always remember, in a relationship, it should be give and take - not give and give and take and take. If he feels cold towards your relationship - then its about time that you think - Bakit? anong rason - does he deserve you or do you deserve him. Sa tingin ko - in yr situation, its his loss not yours. Try to give him freedom at the moment and give him space - let the two of you contemplate on what is good for both of you. Only time can tell..

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Aileen Damiles
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Date Posted: 19:42:45 06/23/03 Mon