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Date Posted: 17:16:34 09/03/23 Sun
Author: Comicality
Subject: Comsie's Answer...
In reply to: Comicality 's message, "Imagine Question For 9/1" on 18:43:55 09/01/23 Fri

I would say that there's definitely a line drawn in the sand when it comes to stuff like this. I mean, I've always been a sucker for a genuine shy guy...but I don't mind a little self confidence when it comes to how cute or how cool they are. And if they spread some of that online, then I think that's great!

But, again....there's a line. If I was dating someone who actually feeds off of the validation of strangers...that's kind of a rabbit hole that never ends, you know? If I was dating someone who was constantly worried about subs and comments and likes of him being shirtless and teasing his fanbase on a daily (sometimes hourly) basis...I think I would have a few issues with that.

I mean, what are you trying to accomplish here? You're selling yourself like a product. A SEXUAL product, no less. So...what am I supposed to do with that? I think there's a level of self confidence that gets in the way of a focused relationship. At the risk of sounding 'old'...everybody seems to be selling themselves these days. Lies have become so common that nobody even calls them out on them anymore. Everybody is a used car salesman, trying to get me to buy their brand, no matter what it takes. As if I'm not going to find out the truth eventually. Why?

I'd rather be the real me than a fake somebody else. Sexy abs and all. Let me get to know who you really are inside, you know? You never know...it might just be good enough for us to run off together and be truly happy with one another! Isn't that better than falling for some fake personality and a fictional celebrity type?

I imagine that as being the loneliest existence ever. Wow...how sad is that?

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  • My answer -- Dom, 06:11:51 09/09/23 Sat
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