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Date Posted: 04:52:25 01/26/06 Thu
Author: Seppe
Subject: Re: how do you know when to make a move?
In reply to: julie 's message, "Re: how do you know when to make a move?" on 14:20:24 01/25/06 Wed

julie,
dont forget about this: 10 % of the people around the world could love someone of the same sex, that means 600 million people in the world
this is what is called "nature"
people who can not accept that have a serious problem, people who dont like other people being lesbian, are people who dont diserve to be called "humans" because they ignore their own nature, that also includes most of the christian people, people who believe in a "god"
they believe more in a person that doesnt exist than in their own nature, thats what i really hate, and believe me, i'm not the only one that thinks this way

if you love that girl, you love her, and nobody has the right to say bad things about that, IF they do so, they have got a very serious problem

you dont have to hide or put away those feelings for people with this kind of disrespect,
you love that girl, that's very clear, it's a fact, and above everything: it's NORMAL
never forget that

actually this are things i shouldnt tell YOU but i should tell it to all the people around you

but just dont forget that there is no problem with you, and it has nothing to do with the fact that you "have to experience life more" or "there'll probably be other people that I'll fall for", no
you just LOVE that girl and there is no question about that

you can do this when you are talking with her: ask here what she thinks about lesbians,

- maybe she says: "it's normal", then you are free to explain your feelings

- but if she answers: "lesbian is strange", she says that because her parents have learned her to think that way
but that does NOT say she will not be able to fall in love with a girl
so when she answers that you can continue and ask why she thinks its strange, and tell her why YOU dont think it's strange

maybe she will say: "actually you are right" and then you can also explain your feelings

i think this is, in your situation, in canada, a good way to go for it

you love her, dont give her up that fast, just because of the fact that the people around you have a problem

i hope things will turn out great for you

Seppe

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