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Date Posted: 19:43:24 08/08/04 Sun
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Subject: <<不要以為>>

「不要以為對人好,便會有相同的對待。
你對人好,也可以換來冷漠的回報。
不要以為你愛別人時,別人亦會愛你。
你愛人,也可以換來無情的傷害。」

別人、自己,是兩個絕然不同的個體,這世上沒有回報這回事,很多時a-->b並不是指做了a就會有b,而是你希望做了a之後結果是b。做甚麼事也好,不要企求有甚麼回報。真心對人好,做完就算了,無論甲對乙付出了甚麼,乙也不欠甲甚麼,因為這不是乙的要求,而是甲自己的個人選擇。每個人做甚麼,說到底都是為了自己,再「偉大」也好,都是依心而選,而不是「真正」的只為別人而做。既然這樣,沒甚麼不甘好說的。

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