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Date Posted: 20:57:32 08/14/02 Wed
Author: Without
Subject: Am I crazy

I have been with R for 5 years. He was two timing for the first 11/2 years and severly deceived me. After I found out he said he stopped sleeping with her although she said they didn't. He continued to go to her house until she moved out of town recently. He gets really angry with me and says that because I continue to bitch about it has lost desire for me. He is 50 yrs old. In the past 3 years we have hardly had any sex. He seems to still have an eye for women we see on the street but tells me he has no desire for anyone. I am jealous of every woman that he comes in contact with and believe he had more than just an affair with his so called ex. She feels as tho I took him from her and therefore believe she would do whatever she could to destroy our relationship. He says she is saying that to cause problems between us. I have gotten really upset for him going there but he says he isn't doing anything wrong. Just doing things to make his daughters life easier. The not knowing the truth is killing me but I have no proof. She has moved away now and there is a difference in him. He says because the pressure is off. I have asked what pressure but he says lets get over the past.
How can I get to the truth? I know it appears as though he was guilty but he swears he stopped. She told a mutual friend it only takes 5 min of him being there for her to get him in bed. He shows no iterest in bed to me. I wish I knew what she did if it is true. How can I find out the truth? Is it me he is not intrested in or is it true that he has lost desire in general and it is nothing personal towards me. I am too jealous to live with my self. Help me please

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