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Date Posted: 16:59:04 11/05/02 Tue
Author: Feral
Subject: Hey Bull...
In reply to: Bull 's message, "Re: Anne-Maree" on 10:17:30 11/05/02 Tue

Unfortunately, I share your frustration and sadness at watching a slow, very public, self-destruction we were powerless to prevent and to some degree affected by.

When I went through a tough time a few summers ago Sugar appeared very supportive of me; I'd assumed she was sincere when she convinced me to wrongly defy my common sense and fight for something I was prepared to walk away from. Unfortunately, now that I have more facts I believe she did it more to see the public explosion than to be a trusted friend.

I'll not profess to having even slightest idea of what has happened here; all I know is that I repeatedly had the olive branch pulled out of my hand and smacked across the back of my skull when I looked the other way.

I always kept quiet when I've read certain people's posts about negative comments I supposedly made to Sugar or her friends, even when I was away. I always held out hope that the guilty party would step up to say "oops, my bad. I'm sorry". Instead, we heard "I never apologize for anything I do".

Toronto was only a stone's throw away for us and we headed up occasionally. A few times we were planning to meeting Sugar. However, there was always a feeling of something hidden that left us ultimately feeling too uncomfortable to pursue a deeper friendship.

Imagine you and your wife about to visit someone only to find out your host has also invited someone from your past she knows you won't get along with... or that your wife is then uninvited but its still okay for you to come stay with her and that guest. It almost sounds as if a publicist were trying stage a public fight to boost their ratings.

So out of self-preservation, and as a sign of overdue respect for the woman I love, who never stooped to react to any of the insult she was shown, I too had to chose to stop trying to be supportive of someone who has behaved undeserving of our friendship.

I've never told anyone that decision; but I guess I'll announce it now.

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[> [> [> Re: Hey Bill -- Bull, 04:52:49 11/06/02 Wed

Your course of action was admirable and I see why Patty is so in love with you.... (It couldn't possibly be your boyish good looks right? lol)

Suggie awoke one morning and forgot who her friends were, and like most women, refuses to let this go.

Its sad, oh, and Suggie, if your response is something along the lines of "Bull, I don't give a Rat's ass and Fuck you"?

Your wasting your time.

Its not too late for you to put this behind you and try to mend some bridges, the guys will forgive you, the women though, I suspect will take a little longer.... not that you give a rat's ass anyway.

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[> [> [> [> Hey BB? -- Cake, 08:53:13 11/06/02 Wed

Guys only forgive women more easily because they operate under the delusion that they might have a snowball's chance of getting into their pants someday... LMAO

;-)

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[> [> [> [> [> Re: Bwahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha -- Bull, 10:30:39 11/06/02 Wed

Not online they dont baby, all the chicks online are ugly

SFL at myself hahahahahahahaha

(((((Except you of course cakers))))))

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