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Subject: Re: Signs of a healthy relationship

Author:
Aubrey

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Date Posted: 11/13/04 9:30:00am
In reply to: Lindsey 's message, "Re: Signs of a healthy relationship" on 11/10/04 4:13:49pm

>>What are some of the signs of a healthy relationship?
>
> I think that some signs of a healthy relationship
>are comfort, communication, and feelings.
> Comfort I think is one of the most important in a
>relationship. If you aren't comfortable with your
>bf/gf, fiance, or spouse, then why be with them at
>all. If you aren't allowing yourself to be you and
>your portraying somebody you really aren't, then you
>shouldn't be with that certain somebody(c/s). Why
>pretend when the real you is so much better than
>putting on a show. And if you are comfortable with
>the c/s you can talk to them about problems or issues.
> Communication is another important factor in a
>relationship. Being able to talk with the c/s kind of
>goes hand in hand with comfort. Being able to talk
>about things without the fear of him/her looking down
>upon you or the fear of him/her beating you up or even
>making fun of you.
> The last key is feelings. You are the only person
>in the world that knows you best. You need to know
>the difference between true-love, just a fling, just
>for show, or possibly something else. You also need
>to talk with your c/s to see what they feel and how
>far he/she might want to go, or might not want to go.
> There are many other things that a realationship
>needs but I feel that those are a few of the most
>important.

Lindsey,

Great response! Yes, feeling comfort, communication and feelings are all very important in a relationship! What are some specific examples of how someone might communicate to you in a HEALTHY way?

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