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Re: Gay Bashing

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Carebear

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Date Posted: 10:51:57 03/31/01 Sat
In reply to: BunFoo 's message, "Gay Bashing" on 18:34:16 03/25/01 Sun

Hey Bun�.

Okay.. I can see where the gay people get all upset about the fact that they are bashed all the time. Okay maybe not all the time, but a lot of the time. It�s absolutely sickening the way that society treats gay people. The people with the little minds should keep their mouths shut and keep their opinions to themselves! But, I have a little rant myself by the way. The way bisexuals are treated!

Yes, the way that society treats bisexuals. Not only do we get the bad end of the deal with the straight people, but the gays also bash us. We are the butt cracks of society. We get the shit from all over then squeezed in the middle. It never seems to amaze me the people that are scared of or that bash the bisexuals.

First off I should start by saying that I am an openly female bisexual. I like both men and women. I do not try to hide the fact that I am bisexual from my friends or family. I believe that my sexual preference is my choice. I do not believe that anyone should try and influence anyone with his or her preferences, especially me.

I think that we should define being bisexual. Bisexual is a way of life, not a moment in time. The people that kiss someone of the same sex one night in a drunken stupor is not a bisexual person. They are a person doing the �In thing�! It makes me absolutely sick that when someone says that they are bisexual because they kissed someone of the same sex. Bisexuality is how your life is based, how it�s run, and what you do with your relationships. Notice I say relationships.

Also, I would like to address the fact that gay people and straight people say that bisexuality is just an excuse not to be monogamous. That is a lie. Just because I date both Women and Men, I am not easy. I am not looking for an excuse to NOT have a monogamous relationship. The only difference between someone who dates that is bisexual and someone else is that we date both sexes. We try out all the options. We leave ourselves open to all possibilities. There is no difference in me dating both males and females as to a straight person or gay person dating all the same sex.

It never seems to amaze me when people say that bisexual people are not looking for a real relationship. We are looking for someone to love us (with all our faults), to wake up in the morning with, to spend the rest of our lives with just like everyone else. Isn�t that what everyone else is looking for?

I also get sick of the people that say that we should pick a side. A SIDE! What is that? How do you pick a side? That is one of the most idiotic statements I have heard. What are so many people scared of? Come on. You can�t make anyone do anything they don�t want to do. Now can you?

As for the straight men out they�re every woman who is bisexual does not want a threesome. Sure they�re great if you�re in the mood and all the parties agree, but just because I�m bisexual doesn�t mean I want to share MY woman with you. You need to rethink that one guys. Sometimes we woman want to be all alone and don�t need you to finish the job. We do just fine on our own!

Well I guess I�ll have to end it here. I could go on and on about this subject. But isn�t that what ranting is about?

Also doesn�t it seem strange that we have no Bisexual Rights? Maybe I should start a group!

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Subject	Author	Date
Re: Gay Bashing	Carebear	12:13:06 03/31/01 Sat