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Date Posted: 07:10:58 01/27/06 Fri
Author: a light
Subject: Re: I'm either retarded or phsyco!
In reply to: lump 's message, "Re: I'm either retarded or phsyco!" on 17:43:51 01/26/06 Thu

I'm with all the others on this, Jes.

I know you've been with him many years and it's hard to imagine living another way. Maybe this situation can go on and on, and you'll continue to adapt to it.

But I do think you can live a better life, and I think that you sound just about ready for a real change.

This might seem cut and dried, but yes, you have to get rid of him. Prepare yourself in any ways that you can, and do it. Don't feel guilty, don't hold hope for it getting better, don't feel you need any easily explainable reason. This relationship has been a source of frustration and unhappiness for you for a long, long time.

There's no point trying to second-guess his behavior, or even your own right now. It's very hard to see the situation when you're in the middle of it, but believe me-- once he's gone, and you've given yourself some time to adjust (which might be difficult and painful at first, but you can take it), you're going to be able to look back on the relationship with a clear mind and heart. And I'll bet you anything in the world you want, you'll be saying "Why the Hell did I put up with that for so long?!?"

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The older the writings of the bible, the more and more
>anti-woman it gets."

I would say that all thoss are "new interpretations". We can't use any christian versions. It goes back to the Hebrew and there are hidden meanings in the letters and numerology (things not transfered in translations). I don't believe for one moment that the original intent was to portray women negatively.

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