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Date Posted: 08:41:48 02/22/06 Wed
Author: tg
Subject: Re: Sexual Question for the girls - guys stay out!
In reply to: lump 's message, "Sexual Question for the girls - guys stay out!" on 13:14:04 02/21/06 Tue

Well, some guys can't perform on command either.

Isn't it sad though that sex just gets boring and it's not fun and pleasurable anymore. It's like it becomes basic and to get it over with, because you have the need or the urge. That sucks!!

We need and want passion!!

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[> Re: Sexual Question for the girls - guys stay out! -- lump, 09:02:54 02/22/06 Wed [1]

Well, when you think about it, besides the G-spot, which - I don't care who you are - you can't deny it - 1/2 the regular orgasm is in our head. If we go in loose (figure of speech people) and ready to go - it's more possible than if we go in not really wanting it. Or go in wanting it and realize after about 10 minutes that he hasn't even touched you. Unfortunately for us, so much of what happens during sex comes from the mood we're in. They out to make some sort of blocker drug for that!!!!

And tg - he wasn't being asked to perform on demand. I was just being plain and open about it - like you guys all see in here I'm about as open as open gets when it comes to sex - I think he felt intimidated. I have been wearing little outfits, buying things to try (like lotions and creams and gels), shaving completely even though I hate it and feel like a 12 year old - he likes that, and being a little more verbal about it(because he told me to). I've been wearing make up every day and doing my hair a little better. I wasn't saying "right now" while wearing my flannel cow pjs and picking my nose. I don't think I've been unreasonable at all. So I have just stopped. Perhaps that's the reason for yesterdays problem. It's like Simon said last night - like putting gloves on a cat.

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[> [> Re: Sexual Question for the girls - guys stay out! -- lump, 09:04:49 02/22/06 Wed [1]

The crazy thing - back to the original point of above thread - is that if we had good sex we'd feel better! But if we feel bad going in, we won't.....it's a full circle.

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