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Date Posted: 09:24:57 02/22/06 Wed
Author: tg
Subject: Re: Sexual Question for the girls - guys stay out!
In reply to: lump 's message, "Sexual Question for the girls - guys stay out!" on 13:14:04 02/21/06 Tue

Oh and just get down and start giving him a blowjob, enough talking and more action. Anyway he means he wants you to tell him what you want when you are doing it. He really doesn't want to talk about it.

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[> Re: Sexual Question for the girls - guys stay out! -- lump, 09:41:54 02/22/06 Wed [1]

Tried that before too, because that's what I've read - yes I've made a study of the whole thing. 75% of the time my hands are removed. Apparantly, he doesn't want me to make that move (which goes against everything I've read) but at the same time he gets upset that I don't (which leads to the fact that he just must not want me at all). The whole outfit, etc. thing is just trying to let him know - because once we had this conversation:

"Why don't you ever wait up for me wearing a little outfit or something?" (note - he works nights and I work days and I was told that's so that we're "not up each others asses")
"I used to. You never came home or you never noticed."
"I didn't know that."
"Yeah, I used to light candles and all that stuff."

I know, I know - I need to quit complaining because I'm beating a dead horse. He's like Dr. Jeckyl and Mr. Hyde. The more I've tried to work things out - the more I see it. He's also a junkie. Pot doesn't bother me nor does it constitute a "junkie". But his new thing is to take other people perscription drugs for anxiety. And this makes him downright scary. After he's done having his eyes roll around in his head and sleeping (the other day he was making this weird gurgling noise and I asked him if he was alright. He said his chest was tight and he wasn't able to get a good breath. HELLO.), he becomes a little paranoid and kinda mean (spoken, believe me I wouldn't take any other kind). I also heard some constant sniffing the other night in the basement - but I don't have any proof so maybe he and/or his buddy just had a runny nose. This all also has a bad effect on our sex life, but apparantly these pills are worth it to him.

I'm actually done. Really. I'm just taking my time trying to figure out how to end it as positively as possible. I heard him say he doesn't want me anymore, but that he'd be really pissed if someone else got me - so you'd think it wouldn't be that hard, but it is. I have a son to consider and finances I can't handle alone (although I'm not afraid to pick up a second job - can I do that to my son?). It's tough and I'm on my own on this one. And trust that I am completely fair - some of this is my fault. But sex is the last straw, you know?

This thread wasn't supposed to be about that anyhow. It's about sheer need!!!! :)

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