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Date Posted: 09:53:53 02/22/06 Wed
Author: 23
Subject: Re: Sexual Question for the girls - guys stay out!
In reply to: lump 's message, "Sexual Question for the girls - guys stay out!" on 13:14:04 02/21/06 Tue

"I'm actually done. Really. I'm just taking my time trying to figure out how to end it as positively as possible."

Sounds like it to me. The quicker you're able to get out and on with your life, the better, IMO.

Good luck.

:)

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[> Re: Sexual Question for the girls - guys stay out! -- lump, 10:04:07 02/22/06 Wed [1]

Yeah - I believe that's where this is going. I've lost alot of sleep and driven myself crazy up until recently trying to figure out what's going on with him. But I've stopped - because that's crazy. I know what the underlying problem is and I don't need to catch him doing something bad to legitimately say it's over.

I don't want child support from him. We had that conversation before and he said he'd never give child support. He thinks that $ should go into a savings account for the child's use only and doesn't understand that it should help with expenses like food and mortgage payments. Anyhow, because of his view and these things he's doing - it's just not even safe to ask for (or have the state force out of him). I don't want to be bound to him at all. Lately, one of the scary mean things I was talking about is that he's told me our son is an asshole (a few times now). Now what kind of Dad says his 11 year old son is an asshole? I don't want to be bound to him, and I don't want my son - now at a very vulnerable age - to be subjected to that kind of behavior. Plus I expect the break up would send him into a downward spiral - and I don't want to be required to let my son be around that. Don't think I don't want them to have time together - because that's VERY important, and I do. But I don't want it to be required of me no matter what's going on - because I expect the worst. So no, no child support.

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