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Date Posted: 18:49:03 02/23/06 Thu
Author: chrys
Subject: Re: Sexual Question for the girls - guys stay out!
In reply to: lump 's message, "Sexual Question for the girls - guys stay out!" on 13:14:04 02/21/06 Tue

yeah, i am also glad to hear that you are planning to leave. it sounds like a good idea given everything you have said on the old forum and here, and especially this thread. that asshole thing is over the top. does he say it to you or does he say it directiy to his/your son? i'm sure it's not an easy thing, but you are a strong woman, and it really sounds like even w/him there, you are doing most of it all on your own anyway.


on your friend who is 30 - omg watch out! i'm serious once i startred it's like omg so many lost years to make up for. when he's here i can't think of anything else. we'll be watching movies or talking about daily life or organized religion, or he'll be showing me his writing or whatever else, and all i can think is, just shut up and get over here. and when he's not here, all i can think is how i want to call him up b/c of a sexual emergency as tg put it, lol. i can't even think about like, anything that's happened b/w us w/o feeling like i'll go out of my mind. lol wonder if this phase will eventually even itself out, or i will always be this wacky?

but yeah when it finally happens for your friend, beware!

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[> Re: Sexual Question for the girls - guys stay out! -- Leo, 22:23:13 02/23/06 Thu [1]

Jes - i think the hardest part is making the decision and it seems you've already done that. Everything else will work itself out, for me things luckily fell into place (only reassuring me that I was doing the right thing).

The other thing is Nate is old enough to start seeing his dad for who he really is. Res is starting to, and I feel bad cause it hurts her, but there's really nothing I can do to stop it.

I understand your stance on the support issue, but I wouldn't discount it completely. I receive a hefty sum each month, and I'd be in sad shape without it. I could definitely get by on less, but in PA at least it depends on what each person makes, and the standard of living the kids are used to. The kids do get more expensive as they get older too. I would at least take what you can get. He also pays for most of their activities, which is a chunk of change too. Right now I am concerned about life insurance, cause he is about to get married (insert vomit), and different scenarios are going through my head as to where my kids stand.

I think you're on the right track, and before you know it, you and I will be doing our traveling!

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