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Date Posted: Thu April 23, 2009 05:24:39
Author: Comicality
Subject: Well, I could always deny, deny, deny....
In reply to: Comicality 's message, "Nah, it's ok. You've got a point..." on Wed April 08, 2009 05:04:55

I know what you guys are thinking, and thanks. Really. I don't ant you to think that I'm one of those folks that feels 'caged' by his sexuality, because I'm really not. For a lot of the folks I talk to they HATE being in the closet. They're frustrated and alone and stress every day about not being able to be who they are in public. And I can understand that completely.

But I've never been that person. I kinda file my sexuality away with things that people simply don't need to know about me unless I deem it necessary. Like issues with my father, my junior high report card, and the name of the first girl I ever kissed. It's just something that I never wanted to be judged by, you know? I'm out to a few people, and it was HARD, believe me! But when I felt it was time for them to know...I struggled through it and made it happen, because they were close to me. But as far as having every random person in the street knowing I'm gay because they heard it from someone, who heard it from someone, who heard it from someone else? I don't want that. Ugh! It would drive me crazy! Like I'm not paranoid ENOUGH without that being a part of my average day! Hehehe!

So, we'll see how things work out. But as far as my privacy is concerned...I guard it well. And there are people who have known me all my life that don't even know what my favorite CD is, or my favorite food....and it doesn't matter. Why should my sexuality?

I'm weird like that.

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