This is why I asked the last question Denise...I too had no problem with her part in killing Love, but was sick to my tummy thinking about her infidelity to Casey. Obviously they are both major sins in the Catholic church (well I shouldn't just say the Catholic Church eh..sins all around, was just thinkng of Father Kevin *g*) Based on Pamela's & Fr. Kevin's reaction...murder is just a wee bit worse. So, I was curious, if y'all felt that way too and why...how do we justify murder but not adultery? -- Cindy's Cottage

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Date Posted: 18:55:09 09/12/07 Wed
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Subject: This is why I asked the last question Denise...I too had no problem with her part in killing Love, but was sick to my tummy thinking about her infidelity to Casey. Obviously they are both major sins in the Catholic church (well I shouldn't just say the Catholic Church eh..sins all around, was just thinkng of Father Kevin *g*) Based on Pamela's & Fr. Kevin's reaction...murder is just a wee bit worse. So, I was curious, if y'all felt that way too and why...how do we justify murder but not adultery?
In reply to: Denise 's message, "(17) Call me a cruel biatch, but I don't have a problem with Pamela's choice to rat out Love. He would have haunted her to the ends of the Earth if he still lived. MAHRI, great job on the questions! I'm always so impressed with the new ideas that come from such insightful questions." on 18:50:13 09/12/07 Wed

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To put it simply, both the infidelity and Love's set up were done out of love for Casey. The infidelity has and will continue to take a toll on their marriage, it's an issue of guilt for Pamela and lost trust between them. Love is a bad dude getting what he deserves, though I doubt Pamela wants his death hanging over her head. The end justifies the means? (NT) -- Denise, 19:10:43 09/12/07 Wed
- I know I'm way out in left-field from the group here, but I have trouble thinking of what Pamela did with LH as 'infidelity'. I don't believe she had any feelings for him, she was backed into a corner and did what seemed necessary to protect her husband and herself. As to LH's fate, he got what he deserved, it's not like Pamela pulled the trigger or anything. Live by the sword, die by the sword; if LH thought he was so insulated that he was beyond touching, he was an idiot as well as a megalomaniac! (NT) -- LadyPeggyB, 22:37:51 09/12/07 Wed
  - I agree Peggy, I couldn't think of a better word at the time though. But no, I didn't feel it was infidelity either...I think that she felt she had no other choice and I didn't judge her for it. She was maybe unfaithful with her body but not her heart! (NT) -- Marilyn, 06:17:33 09/13/07 Thu
    - That's why I had the discussion with Cindy below. I didn't feel Pamela had anything to feel 'guilty' over. But then, I must be seeing things differently for some reason. (NT) -- LadyPeggyB, 10:23:30 09/13/07 Thu
      - I understand your point, and also believe she should not feel guilty over a selfless act to save her husband, but try to convince her of that?? (NT) -- Denise, 12:38:10 09/13/07 Thu
  - Well, I never used the word "infidelity" in my thinking about it. I just cringed at the thought of having sex with someone I didn't love. To me, infidelity is having a love affar with someone outside of your marriage bed. I thought Love was a ruthless SOB, and I had no problem with Pamela setting him up. She did not kill him herself, she freed Casey,,, and herself,,,,,,,,from him. He was obvioulsy going to take him out of the picture, then he thought he would posess Pamela wholly. He was too foolish to realize he never could. (NT) -- bug, 06:38:00 09/13/07 Thu
    - PS-- I stay in left field Peggy. I kinda like it here :-)) (NT) -- bug, 06:39:13 09/13/07 Thu

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