This is especially meaningful coming from you, Nalana. It can't be easy for you, no matter how many times Mike's deployed. -- Cindy's Cottage

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Date Posted: 17:49:57 07/04/09 Sat
Author: E
Subject: This is especially meaningful coming from you, Nalana. It can't be easy for you, no matter how many times Mike's deployed.
In reply to: Lil 's message, "I think this is something you have to accept when you are involved with a man who puts himself in dangerous situations - whether activist, military, policemen, firemen, etc. You have to be strong enough to be okay with the worry, as hard a it is. You have to trust the man will make smart decisions, rely on any training and pray that God will give him back when he's done. I think she's strong enough, but she's also got to remember that timing and degree are everything...the wrong time or the wrong action can increase the danger to her man (and herself). But I'm not saying she should go against her nature, just be thoughtful and cautious when she does take action." on 15:03:20 07/04/09 Sat

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I get where Pamela is coming from in this particular situation. you don't choose who you love, you just love who you love. And you have to figure out the rest. I worry about Mike and if I was 19 when I met him I would probably have behaved more like Pamela. But with age I learned that I couldn't be in control of that aspect of our marriage. I have to trust that he's learned everything he needs in training (thus I try not to complain about when he's away to train because I know its important). I am glad to hear, with maturity, Pamela is learning how to cope better in this aspect of her relationship with Casey. (NT) -- Lil, 19:48:14 07/04/09 Sat

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