I think this is something you have to accept when you are involved with a man who puts himself in dangerous situations - whether activist, military, policemen, firemen, etc. You have to be strong enough to be okay with the worry, as hard a it is. You have to trust the man will make smart decisions, rely on any training and pray that God will give him back when he's done. I think she's strong enough, but she's also got to remember that timing and degree are everything...the wrong time or the wrong action can increase the danger to her man (and herself). But I'm not saying she should go against her nature, just be thoughtful and cautious when she does take action. -- Cindy's Cottage

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Date Posted: 15:03:20 07/04/09 Sat
Author: Lil
Subject: I think this is something you have to accept when you are involved with a man who puts himself in dangerous situations - whether activist, military, policemen, firemen, etc. You have to be strong enough to be okay with the worry, as hard a it is. You have to trust the man will make smart decisions, rely on any training and pray that God will give him back when he's done. I think she's strong enough, but she's also got to remember that timing and degree are everything...the wrong time or the wrong action can increase the danger to her man (and herself). But I'm not saying she should go against her nature, just be thoughtful and cautious when she does take action.
In reply to: Tracy 's message, "Pamela doesn't seem to me the kind of woman who would sit and wait and worry but rather do something on her own terms to help and worry at the same time. I think the worry is part of her future but I dont think she is prepared to live without Casey just so she doesnt have to worry. I think even if she left Casey or chose not to have a future with him that she would always worry about him anyway." on 13:56:45 07/04/09 Sat

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