Q3) I think they've both said things that need to be said, however I don't think it will take either one of them down the path to happiness, at least not for a long time to come. When Jamie chose to turn >>>Pamela away (for valid reasons), he set a chain of events in motion that has led to them having to work through their feelings on their own, rather than together. Pamela needs to figure out how to go from be in love with Jamie to loving him. I think a huge clue to her feelings for him is that deep down she really doesn't want him to be happy without her. Contrast this with Jamie who turned her down out of love. In many ways, I think Pamela's love for Jamie is still the love of a young girl for the first man who touched her heart and soul. The real dichotomy of it, to me, is that it's both immature and yet so deep and abiding. Jamie, having made the decision that he's not right for Pamela also needs to come to terms with his decision and -- Cindy's Cottage

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Date Posted: 15:58:48 10/04/07 Thu
Author: Carla
Subject: Q3) I think they've both said things that need to be said, however I don't think it will take either one of them down the path to happiness, at least not for a long time to come. When Jamie chose to turn >>>Pamela away (for valid reasons), he set a chain of events in motion that has led to them having to work through their feelings on their own, rather than together. Pamela needs to figure out how to go from be in love with Jamie to loving him. I think a huge clue to her feelings for him is that deep down she really doesn't want him to be happy without her. Contrast this with Jamie who turned her down out of love. In many ways, I think Pamela's love for Jamie is still the love of a young girl for the first man who touched her heart and soul. The real dichotomy of it, to me, is that it's both immature and yet so deep and abiding. Jamie, having made the decision that he's not right for Pamela also needs to come to terms with his decision and
In reply to: Lil 's message, "Part Four: When the Dark Night Seems Endless�." on 00:04:36 10/04/07 Thu

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