Okay, not sure where the rest of my long-winded comment went, but I was going to say that Jamie needs to figure out how to move on before he truly brings another woman into his life. One-night stands or at least relationships based solely on lust may be a way for the boyo to relieve those natural urges without breaking anybody else's heart. Right now I think it's rather unfair of him to bring a women into his home and life until he's worked out how to love Pamela without being in love with her. -- Cindy's Cottage

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Date Posted: 16:05:35 10/04/07 Thu
Author: Carla
Subject: Okay, not sure where the rest of my long-winded comment went, but I was going to say that Jamie needs to figure out how to move on before he truly brings another woman into his life. One-night stands or at least relationships based solely on lust may be a way for the boyo to relieve those natural urges without breaking anybody else's heart. Right now I think it's rather unfair of him to bring a women into his home and life until he's worked out how to love Pamela without being in love with her.
In reply to: Carla 's message, "Q3) I think they've both said things that need to be said, however I don't think it will take either one of them down the path to happiness, at least not for a long time to come. When Jamie chose to turn >>>Pamela away (for valid reasons), he set a chain of events in motion that has led to them having to work through their feelings on their own, rather than together. Pamela needs to figure out how to go from be in love with Jamie to loving him. I think a huge clue to her feelings for him is that deep down she really doesn't want him to be happy without her. Contrast this with Jamie who turned her down out of love. In many ways, I think Pamela's love for Jamie is still the love of a young girl for the first man who touched her heart and soul. The real dichotomy of it, to me, is that it's both immature and yet so deep and abiding. Jamie, having made the decision that he's not right for Pamela also needs to come to terms with his decision and" on 15:58:48 10/04/07 Thu

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I agree Carla about Jamie, but in all fairness, Pamela had supposedly moved to Boston then BAM- she's sleeping on the couch of his private study all needy and ready to bask in his light again. (NT) -- susiej, 11:00:01 10/05/07 Fri

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