As Cindy said, it's not a rational anger, but, as Denise said, it's a way to vent pent-up emotions. My mom, who worked for many years as a paediatirc emergency nurse says many parents were often furious at their children for getting badly hurt. It's a reaction to fear and worry in some people. Most strong emotions have no basis in reality or logical reason behind them. -- Cindy's Cottage

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Date Posted: 05:26:15 10/10/07 Wed
Author: Carla
Subject: As Cindy said, it's not a rational anger, but, as Denise said, it's a way to vent pent-up emotions. My mom, who worked for many years as a paediatirc emergency nurse says many parents were often furious at their children for getting badly hurt. It's a reaction to fear and worry in some people. Most strong emotions have no basis in reality or logical reason behind them.
In reply to: Marilyn 's message, "I've seriously been thinking about these questions all day (great questions Tracy and deep :-) but was unable to come up with anything in reply that made sense. Your comment 'she wants to be mad at him, wants to resent him' struck a chord with me. Each time I've read this book, I've wondered - why the hell is she so mad at him? It's not like he went out and got lifted on purpose. I understand her anger with him about not visiting in prison and I think I've come to some kind of understanding overall...but I'd like to hear y'all thoughts on this. I can think of times I get mad at Glenn and it's through no fault of his own...but it seems selfish after the fact and I feel bad." on 20:01:00 10/09/07 Tue

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Thanks y'all :-) This is kind of what I figured out in my mind yesterday. That sometimes when there are just so many other strong emotions rollin' around inside you - it tends to come out as anger. I remembered my Grandmother got really p/o'd at my Grandfather for dying and leaving her alone. At the time I was like 'how the hell is she gonna be mad at a dead man'. Like I said, every read has left me wondering why Pamela had so much anger but I never took the time to try and figure it out - and that's one of the GREAT things about discussing the book here :-) (NT) -- Marilyn, 06:21:59 10/10/07 Wed
- I do have to say that I agree with you Marilyn; she knew what he was when she married him and she asked to marry him so in many ways, she can't be angry at him for that and he certainly tried harder to stay out of trouble in this book then he did in EU, but as the others have said, anger isn't always rational- she's afraid for him and that makes her angry. He can't help that unless he can make her stop loving him. (NT) -- susiej, 10:49:21 10/10/07 Wed

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