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Subject: Re: Why bare, if it is done that way?


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Matteo
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Date Posted: 10:35:52 03/01/12 Thu
In reply to: PJ 's message, "Why bare, if it is done that way?" on 19:29:10 01/18/12 Wed

Never had a discussion about it with my dad but I would guess that #2 and #3 applied with him as they did with me as a dad. You want the sting to be memorable but not damaging and a bare bottom promotes both of those goals.

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JohnW
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Date Posted: 05:02:49 03/04/12 Sun

1. Because it is more efficient - you don't have to spank as hard to make sure it stings.

2. Because you can see the effect it is having and you don't "overspank" in one area and cause bruising and "underspank" in another area.

3. Because it sends a VERY clear message to the child that he/she is being punished and that their parent is in control of them.

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