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Subject: Why bare, if it is done that way? Author: PJ [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 19:29:10 01/18/12 Wed Why do your parents spank bare, if they do? I asked Dad once. He has three reasons. 1. Consistency among spankings. Pants, shorts, jeans, pj's, etc. can all vary in thickness. Removing that keeps the spanking consistent. 2. Dad says he can judge if he is hitting too hard or administering too harshly. 3. Then he said, frankly, it hurts worse. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Why bare, if it is done that way? Author: Dylan [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:54:43 01/19/12 Thu Here I think it's mostly to be sure it stings. Hand spanking through pants wouldn't do much. Dad has also said that being bare makes it more of an "event." I'm glad he's not selling tickets! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Why bare, if it is done that way? Author: Mark the Athlete, Drew, Jake and Sean to Dylan [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:48:46 02/05/12 Sun Hey Dylan, Saw your comments and post. So your baring and there is to be tickets sold by your dad? How much are tickets? Also, we've talked it over and decided so there would not be hurt feelings (only a sore, red, hurt butt at the event) we'd like to "CHEER" you on for being the sport and maybe your dad for a delivering a "good performance". Do you think your dad still has it, or rather should we say: can deliver a good performance, even though it has been close to a year since you and him "put on a show of events"? We bet your butt has forgotten how it "feels" to get so much attention; but we CONGRATULATE you on streaking you are on and it helps to show that some of us guys in the forum has what it takes to be a long termer of not getting spanked! We are PROUD of you. Wished we could say the same for ourselves! Your buddies, Mark the Athlete, Drew, Jake and Sean [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Why bare, if it is done that way? Author: Dylan [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:23:46 02/06/12 Mon Tickets are on sale now for the March 1 Reunion Tour celebrating my birthday. Cost is 10 dylan cookies for each "End Zone" seat. (Sorry, I couldn't resist the football pun...) [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Why bare, if it is done that way? Author: Samantha [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:38:45 01/19/12 Thu Hi PJ, My parents usually save bare bottom spankings for more serious offenses. My mom told us that if regular spankings aren't getting the message through then a bare bottom one sure will. And she's right. Those are the worst. And I tend to behave much better I think after I've had my bare tushy lit up. Good question though. Bye bye! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Why bare, if it is done that way? Author: David [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:12:57 01/19/12 Thu Hi PJ, To your dad's reasons I'd add 4. with covering it takes more effort to get the same effect. It's supposed to be a punishment for the kids, not for the parents. ;) 5. This isn't true for all kids, but for many it really makes the punishment a lot more effective because they really, really hate having their pants taken down and going over the knee [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Why bare, if it is done that way? Author: Ste Hil (L43W) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:14:48 01/20/12 Fri I would also add that it is more natural punishment to spank a bare bottom compared to a clothed one. It just felt right and just. When I was spanked on my bare bottom, other than the pain and shame, what I clearly remember was how loud the smacking sound was. It made the punishment feel even more real. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Why bare, if it is done that way? Author: Lucy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:26:46 01/22/12 Sun I would say in our house all those reasons stand. Although tbh a lot of mine aren't bare, in fact maybe more than half. That means a lot of them are inconsistent depending on what I'm wearing, but these aren't very hard spankings anyway. Proper paddlings for serious stuff are always bare though, and those reasons are all important then, plus, I think, its just traditional, and how our parents were always spanked, so they do it like that too. Lucy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Why bare, if it is done that way? Author: Michael [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:17:57 02/03/12 Fri I got spanked bare wooden spoon [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Why bare, if it is done that way? Author: Zack [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:28:03 01/24/12 Tue Never got it bare, but I had to drop trou to get it on the underwear as I got older. For my dad, it added to the formality of the 'event'. There was a process to the punishment that was followed each and every time. My brother and me knew what to expect. There was the walk downstairs, the lecture, dad removing his belt, us dropping trou and bending over the couch, etc. Let's face it, the belt hurts and it doesn't matter that much if pants are up or pants or down - there was a definite feeling of bruised ego dropping trou to get the belt. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Why bare, if it is done that way? Author: Rachel [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:33:21 01/27/12 Fri My mom almost always spanks bare. She says it is more for our safety than anything, she can know how hard she is hitting so that she knows she isn't hitting too soft or too hard, she has more control. I never really knew that spankings (other than paddlings at school) were ever really done any way other than bare, but we might have a skewed perspective because my mom does the spanking and 1) it is all daughters, so no gender awkwardness & 2) my mom has a more relaxed view on nudity than most americans because she was raised in Spain. Well not really more relaxed, just different definition....breasts and bottoms aren't really considered "naked" parts so much to her, its just the private areas that are, well, private. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Why bare, if it is done that way? Author: Colby [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:33:08 02/18/12 Sat I don't get it bare. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Why bare, if it is done that way? Author: Harry [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 23:23:56 02/27/12 Mon I think PJ (and his father) have got it about spot on! But also, it feels entirely natural to correct in that way. The object IS to sting, so why impede the progress of the punishment with clothing? There is also the safety factor of watching the progress of the punishment to ensure that it is not excessive, particularly if a cane or paddle are the preferred implements. The only caveat is that baring should NOT be about humiliation, but about effective correction. We take great care that it is done in such a way as to avoid embarrassment, particularly for teens. It should be about a red bottom, not a red face! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Why bare, if it is done that way? Author: Matteo [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:35:52 03/01/12 Thu Never had a discussion about it with my dad but I would guess that #2 and #3 applied with him as they did with me as a dad. You want the sting to be memorable but not damaging and a bare bottom promotes both of those goals. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Why bare, if it is done that way? Author: JohnW [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:02:49 03/04/12 Sun 1. Because it is more efficient - you don't have to spank as hard to make sure it stings. 2. Because you can see the effect it is having and you don't "overspank" in one area and cause bruising and "underspank" in another area. 3. Because it sends a VERY clear message to the child that he/she is being punished and that their parent is in control of them. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Why bare, if it is done that way? Author: jono [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 00:42:30 03/20/12 Tue when i get spanked im sent to my bedroom to get undressed to just my boxers and wait. mum comes in there lectures me. standing there in my underwear is part of the punishment. then i have to drop the underwear and bend over the bed. ive always got it bare. i guess the ritual of baring forces me to submit to the punishment. i also think its bare so mum can see the marks on my butt. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Why bare, if it is done that way? Author: James Builder [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 23:19:05 01/04/13 Fri dad wants to be able to see what he is doing and so all of them start the same (on my bare butt). i remember asking grandma once when i was younger and she told me cause my butt was too cute to be covered up but i am pretty sure she was teasing, though with my grandma i can never be sure. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]