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>Dear Clara, > >So good of you to write. > >As I understand what you said, your Nan, you, and your >daughters all wear girdle, but you mother did not. I >hope you won't think me rude for asking, but why not >your mother? > >I've worn girdles, corslets, and corsets even since my >mom put me in a girdle. I switch from one to another >from time to time. Lately, I've gone from corsets to >a girdle, rather my girdle ensemble: a long line bra >and a cinch. Rather like my dating girdle, the only >exception being that I'm not actually sealed in. > >When I have a spare moment, I'm going to look for that >dating girdle. There's a collection of boxes in the >garage; maybe it's there. If I find it, ... that >would bring back a flood of memories. > >When the occasion is appropriate, I like to dress in >the style of the 1950's. That was a time of elegance. > I wish I could go back there. > > >Love and hugs, >Heather. > >>Hello Heather >>You have to remember that my nan & mum are no relation >>to my Madison, she is my step daughter but my nan & >>mum treat her as one of their own great >>grandchildren/grandchildren. Apart from sport, >>dancing, (her words) dumb beat, useless, waste of >>space boyfriend who totaly loves and adores is fashion >>particular of my nans teenage years, she has already >>designed and made several of her outfits for her >>freestyle Ballet and Tap dancing performances with a >>1940/1950 theme as well as won awards at competitions >>for her outfits. The 4 eldest girls were never told >>you have to wear a girdle it was something they were >>curious about, where I was told while living with my >>nan after mum and dad split up I had to wear a girdle. >>Sophia is very traditional with her girdles, mostly >>wears corsolettes but will wear a obg with a skirt, a >>long leg panty girdle with trousers/pants, wears a >>real stretchy one like I do when we go for a run, she >>even had Madision modify a couple for her to wear >>under her leotard at work as a dance tuition >>assistant, Sophia and Madision certainly have learnt >>their posture is much better when wearing a girdle, >>the discomfort from their monthly is a lot less - >>they both had shocking periods and were on strong >>medications to help with it until they started wearing >>a girdle, they walk better and their general over all >>appearence looks better + as Madision learnt and was >>greatful for when she was set upon by 4 boys trying to >>have there way with her make a excellent chastity >>device as these boys didn't have the first clue how to >>get past it. Madison was showing my nan the girdle >>her nan gave her, still doesn't fit her - but doesn't >>fall off her now sits on her hips, my nan reckons >>another 6 months and Madision will be able to start to >>feel the effect of that girdle and she will certainly >>know she is wearing it as it is very firm and rigid. >>But Madision is learning alot from that era from Nan, >>they will miss each other when mum and nan head back >>to the UK in a few weeks. But Nan has mellowed in her >>old age, she has pointed out that she was proud of her >>Granaughter, her grandaughters and step grandaughter >>all wearing girdles it is just a shame her daughter >>would not understand what she could gain from wearing >>one - are you reading this mum? Clara >>>Clara, it was kind of you to write back. Thank you. >>>Good that you wore one of your firmist to the >airport. >>> That turned out well. >>>So nice that Madison is interested in talking with >>>Nan. That must make you very happy. Does Madison >>>ever talk with you about what she has learned? >>>Today, I'm wearing a lovely corset. A nice feeling, >>>different, but nice. >>>Love & hugs, Heather. >>> >>>>Thank you Heather, sorry I haven't been able to >reply >>>>sooner, been busy with Mum and I found out why Nan >>>>wasn't answering her phone as she came too that was >a >>>>big surprise, Just as well I wore one of my best and >>>>firmest gridles to the airport! I will pass this >>onto >>>>Maddison and the twins, once my nan stops spoiling >>>>them, she accepts Maddison as one of the family even >>>>though there is no relation ship her. Maddison has >>>>been talking to Nan a lot about girdles when she was >>>>Maddison's age (16) I think Maddison has been >>keeping >>>>some notes. Clara >>>>>Clara, >>>>> >>>>>You wrote: >>>>>"....I remembered my first Easter Girdled? Which I >>>>>told them that I did, it was nothing like you panty >>>>>girdles you wore today, this was a very firm, very >>>>>high waisted that come up almost to my breasts, it >>>was >>>>>a open bottom girdle that come to my mid thigh, was >>>>>double hook and eye with a zipper clousure, with >set >>>>>of hook and eyes which you nan had to do up for me, >>>>>then zipped it up before another layer of hook and >>>eye >>>>>over the top, ..." >>>>> >>>>>That reminds me of my dating girdle, except that >>mine >>>>>was a long leg panty girdle with no opening to go >to >>>>>the bathroom, or anything else. That was the whole >>>>>point. If my Mom didn't know the boy's family, >>there >>>>>were additional layers, an all in one and a back >>>laced >>>>>waist cincher over that. When I went out on a >date, >>>I >>>>>was encased in my undergarments and sealed in for >>the >>>>>evening. >>>>> >>>>>I had mixed feelings about the matter. I liked the >>>>>protection, but it was not the most comfortable way >>>to >>>>>spend an evening. Now, its mostly sweet memories. >>>>> >>>>>Does anyone else here remember dating girdles? >>>>> >>>>>Love and hugs, >>>>>Heather >>>>> >>>>> >>>>>>With it being Easter time and church services, I >>>>>>naturally as a mum made sure the 5 girls looked >>>>>>perfect as we had Good Friday church service with >>>>>>Hubby's Mum and Nan who both examined the >>>Grand/Great >>>>>>Grand daughters from top to bottom as well as >>>Sophia, >>>>>>the girls all had nice new Autumn/Fall Dresses of >>>>>>course well Girdled, Gartered Stockings for the >>>>eldest >>>>>>4 and tights for the youngest, I even managed to >>>find >>>>>>her a control brief it was only a spanx like thing >>>>but >>>>>>it looked like a girdle with a diamond panel on >it, >>>>>>but really just like a pair of tight panties but >>she >>>>>>was happy she felt like a big girl with Sophia and >>>>>>Maddision wearing 3" heels (the first time >Maddison >>>>>>had worn heels to church) and the twins wearing >>1.5" >>>>>>heels, youngest (oh by the way her name is Abbi >>>after >>>>>>Abbi on the show NCIS) I let her wear kitty >heels. >>>>>>Girls all passing the approval of the Nan and >Great >>>>>>nan, Church over with, I brought a pair of Abbi's >>>>>>flats with me in case she wanted to change at >>Hubby' >>>>>>mum's place afterwards but she didn't, Hubby's nan >>>>>>paid me a complement on how well the girls figures >>>>>>looked and me steering them to wearing a girdle >>>daily >>>>>>has certainly been benefical for them, I did >>>disagree >>>>>>pointing out all 5 of them are sport and dancing >>mad >>>>>>and I felt them being so active was the key thing >>>and >>>>>>the girdles just complemented that, but she was >>>>>>probably right though after all I am 52 and she is >>>87 >>>>>>and still wears a girdle daily and she even >noticed >>>>>>that Abbie was wearing a control brief and was vey >>>>>>impressed with Abbi's make that the little angel >>did >>>>>>her self with no help from Sophia or Maddison. >>That >>>>>>evening at home the Twins asked me if I remembered >>>my >>>>>>first Easter Girdled? Which I told them that I >did, >>>>it >>>>>>was nothing like you panty girdles you wore today, >>>>>>this was a very firm, very high waisted that come >>up >>>>>>almost to my breasts, it was a open bottom girdle >>>>that >>>>>>come to my mid thigh, was double hook and eye with >>a >>>>>>zipper clousure, with set of hook and eyes which >>you >>>>>>nan had to do up for me, then zipped it up before >>>>>>another layer of hook and eye over the top, the >>>back >>>>>>half from buttock down had a stretchy section that >>>>>>when I need to go to the bath room I had to undo >>all >>>>4 >>>>>>rear garters, sort of fold/pull out/life this >>>section >>>>>>and get ones knickers down if being worn and sit >on >>>>>>the loo all at the same time! Walking in it was >>not >>>>>>easy as I could only take real tiny little steps >>but >>>>>>at the same time it helped me perfect walking in >>>>heels >>>>>>and as you Great Grand mother told me it taught me >>>to >>>>>>take lady like steps. One of the twins reckoned >it >>>>>>sounded like a torture device, I pointed out if >>felt >>>>>>like one, but it become the norm for me for every >>>>time >>>>>>we went to church, I had to wear that girdle. I >>>will >>>>>>find it for them when we go to UK next year, it is >>>>>>still stored at my mum's place. I was looking for >>>it >>>>>>online today but I can't remember the brand or >>model >>>>>>and can't ring mum to ask her as she is flying out >>>>>>from the UK and arriving now on Monday after her >>>>>>connecting flights though the Middle East and Asia >>>>>>have been delayed and oddly my 93 year old Nan who >>>is >>>>>>always home ever Sunday afternoon for our video >>call >>>>>>with the girls and her care agency told me that >had >>>>>>been advised by mum that they won't be required >for >>>6 >>>>>>weeks, which is also odd as that is how long mum >is >>>>>>staying for? >>>>>> >>>>>>But it looked similar to this: >>>>>>https://www.metmuseum.org/art/collection/search/98 >7 >>1 >>>8 >>>> >>>>>> >>>>>>But obviously had the panel that went over the >>>zipper >>>>>>that pulled it in real tight was well as the >>>stretchy >>>>>>strip at the back, but the panel at the front is >>>>>>almost identical. But I pointed out to them I >>>become >>>>>>used to wearing it, I managed to be able to do it >>up >>>>>>my self. Any way I got to go, got to gets the 3 >>>>>>youngest ones outfits ready for greeting their Nan >>>>>>tomorrow, Twins to dance practice, Abbi to dance >>>>>>practice also with School Holiday estidfords >coming >>>>up >>>>>>very fast, I had better work out what girdle I am >>>>>>going to wear! Bye for now. Clara

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