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>>My mom used the word “soapy.” >>She would say to me, “do you need a soapy? I think a >>good soapy would help.” And it did not take long for >>me to understand what she was talking about. >>Once she got it in her head I needed “a soapy”, there >>was no stopping her. >>One of the things enemas did to me was wear me out and >>make me so tired and mom knew that as well, she knew >>shortly after having a bm from an enema, I would take >>a nap and she used that for her advantage to some >>peace and quiet. >> >>>Growing up I remember my mom, aunt and other moms >>>saying “you need a good enema “ or “a good enema will >>>help you” >>> >>>Did your mom, or whoever was going to give you an >>>enema, say the same? >>> >>>Getting many bulb syringe enemas, I didn’t think it >>>was such a go thing! 😂 >>> >>>But, I, in a weird way, enjoyed knowing I was going >to >>>get an enema > >When a "good enema" was proposed in "Bonnie's" house, >it usually meant that the intent was to totally clean >out the digestive system as opposed to merely >initiating a BM. For us kids, a good enema often meant >multiple fills and releases, with soapsuds until the >returns were clear. Those other quickies were quite >common and satisfied her inspections of the results. >With my younger sisters, the bulb was used more often >than the enema bag my sister and I experienced while >grandma was still alive. > >I recall my mom expressing her own need of a "good >enema" as she was preparing for those tests that >involved her digestive issues. In one case after >Sunday dinner, with the whole family present at >grandma's, mom was unable to resist dessert that was >ready after the time she was told to be NPO. When >challenged by grandma and my aunt, mom said she would >be sure to take a "good enema" and repeat it as often >as she needed to assure she was empty. > >Although we kids were aware that grandma was assisting >her very late into the evening, we had been told to >use the bathroom and stay in our room and go to sleep. >We stayed awake and listened to the sounds as mom >complained about the extra soapy enemas grandma was >giving her. We thought it only fitting that she got to >experience what we had been put through at times. In >the morning, we couldn't wait to see the wet enema bag >hanging back in the shower/tub

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