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>>Will you tell us about your session when it's done? >>Grace, will you tell us about some of the sessions on >>both sides? > > >I have been thinking long and hard about your question >and whether I would answer it and if so, how. > >My decision has been I will answer it, but in parts, >but do not want a lot of questions from people. Would >be glad to answer a few, but my time has limits. So >if forum members respect that I will give you, >hopefully, the information you requested. > >First a preamble to my answers. This is clearly not >an issue or an activity for everyone. It works for me >and group of others that I know. We are all adults >and it is not meant for children. > >Each person must decide what works for them. This may >take some exploration and series of starts and stops >before you find what meets your needs. That being >said, it does not come quickly or easily for most >folks. But if you are determined and careful I think >everyone can find something that works for them. > >For me and my group, this is not sexual. I (we) do >not get turned on by this but view it as a method of >pure punishment. It not for made up offenses and it >is not in any manner pleasant. It is embarrassing but >the support from the group also makes it worthwhile. >It is not done out of anger but is a caring >application of unique and very effective form of >punishment. > >For me, I do both give and receive. I would say both >occur with equal frequency, which is about once a >month when we get together. (And please do not ask to >join our group.) > >As a receiver, I am sorry, humiliated and embarrassed >by the punishments the group decides for me. In my >case these are administered by an older gentlemen who >I trust (most important) and can deliver the >appropriate amount of punishment for any given crime >or offense. > >My punishments may be simple as a bare bottom spanking >to a full naked enema session with figging and other >things. These are given in front of the group to add >to my embarrassment and serve as a warning for others. > >However, a word of advice, when you are finding your >way doing it in a group scene is probably not best. >You need to find someone to trust and bond to before >you come out in my opinion. > >So, with that in mind here is the first installment. >I will add more when I get time to write.

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