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Author: Elizabeth |
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Date Posted: 06:48:14 04/06/16 Wed In reply to: micheleFFS 's message, "Re: Easter Dresses and more for boys" on 15:17:49 04/05/16 Tue I'm not sure if you're a parent or not, Michele. But let me explain why Luke's punishment was not only deserved, but is clearly working. He has some friends who I feel are leading him astray. Or perhaps he's leading them, or they're all egging each other on. Whatever - he'd started staying out later than he'd agreed, and drinking alcohol. That, of course, is illegal for a 15 year old. I had tried reasoning with him. I'd tried stopping his pocket money. I'd tried everything. Eventually I reminded him that when he was younger I'd put him back into nappies and a dress when he'd been acting childishly. He remembered all too well, and I sensed a change in him; it seemed I had a threat he was genuinely worried about. So after repeated warnings, I told him he'd be wearing a dress on Easter Sunday. As an incentive to improve his behaviour before then I said he could wear panties with his dress instead of nappies if he was good. As you'll have read, he wasn't good, so he ended up in nappies again. After some suggestions from Chris ("the radical feminist") on here I decided that a few days dressed in girls' clothes might be good for him. It would, if nothing else, ensure he didn't go out drinking. And it certainly worked. The threat to take him out dressed as a girl to his football match was highly effective. He promised all sorts of things to avoid having to do that. Getting a dress etc out and laying it on his bed for him merely showed him how serious I was - he didn't know I didn't intend to do it. And then him eventually being so grateful at being "allowed" to wear panties meant that when we got home I was able to prove to him that wearing panties, and other girls' clothes when he's at home, is a good thing for him - it's improved his behaviour (which he admits), and it's kept him out of further punishment. I can assure you that Luke is neither confused nor uncertain about the punishment he is receiving, the effect it's having on his behaviour and the consequences of failing to improve. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] |
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| Re: Easter Dresses and more for boys | john (happy) | 03:29:17 04/17/16 Sun |