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Date Posted: 21:43:36 03/12/15 Thu
Author: nath
Subject: Re: Hello to all
In reply to: Rez 's message, "Re: Hello to all" on 13:08:08 03/12/15 Thu

*Squhug* glad if the words help. I think it's important to find the limit to protect ourselves, (tons easier to say than to do...) each time we ask ourselves why i cut with them, or i miss them or any other guilty thoughts, it takes away our strength, it's the goal of our dark passenger to make us feel guilty, to make us feel frail/weak But all the way we did step by step, day after day, and by breaking the chains of our Trauma, and each time we try to resist against our dark passenger it means we are Strong, and Stronger than this dark passenger.
2 tracks to help:
http://tinyurl.com/nzkujhn
http://tinyurl.com/q3t8bpg

and also this quote: from 1 of our 2mentors: "the arm of the abuser is a long one, so cut the fu.ker off".
To cut with the ones who gave us life it's a hard process, a daily fight (some days are easier than others tho), it hurts also because we feel ungrateful toward them, we did cut with the ones who gave us life because they did hurt us, they have lost their Parents role, to cut with them the only way for us to stay safe. im proud of you Rez and of all of the Zone, altogether we are like plasters/bandages to each other and we find the strength needed for these fights against our own
dark passenger.
And no need to apologies, only those who (did) hurt us have to say it ;)
Take care all.
nath

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