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Subject: How to Get Parents to Stop Spanking You Author: Sophie [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 14:49:45 05/12/24 Sun I am fifteen and get paddle licks from my mother. So does my twelve year old sister. This started in October. Mom said she was sick and tired of the way we acted and came home with a paddle. We live in Southern U.S. where there is a lot of support for spanking so all her friends have supported her. I was talking to an adult friend I trust. She is not against spanking but is a good person I trust. She gave me these ideas on how to get parents to stop spanking you. https://www.wikihow.com/Get-Your-Parents-to-Stop-Spanking-You. I am using it. My spankings have not stopped but they are less than they were. I pass them to any spanked older kids who may read this. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: How to Get Parents to Stop Spanking You Author: Ivy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:27:39 05/12/24 Sun Hi Sophie! Those are good tips. I hope some kids, especially those in their teens, will take advantage of them. My experience, which sounds kind of similar to yours, is an example of working with parents to stop spanking. Ten years ago when I was thirteen, my parents started spanking again, after a five year hiatus. My mother was the impetus behind it. That is kind of strange because I come from a mixed family. My Dad is Irish Catholic and Mom is a Russian Jew. Spanking is not really very common in Jewish culture, but when we were young Mom deferred to Dad. But when I was thirteen it was all Mom. I was a high achieving, well behaved young teenager, but I started to get that attitude of rebelliousness, sassiness and backtalk, which though common at that age was too much for mother. So they started spanking. For a while that g_d awful hairbrush only made me angry. But then I was lucky enough to fall in with a small group of kids my age who were still spanked. I learned it was up to me to stop this childish indignity --and anger, blaming my parents and further rebelliousness had the opposite effect. So I made a conscious effort to roll back the worst of my sulking, backtalk, etc. The other thing I did was talk to them about spanking at calm times --how to prevent them and alternative punishments. The spankings slowed down and stopped by the time I was fifteen. I hope you are able to do the same. Ivy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: How to Get Parents to Stop Spanking You Author: Amara [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:07:18 05/13/24 Mon I am sixteen and mama says I am not too old for a whoopin, but it has been four months so I really think they may have stopped. The idea of talking to a parent about it is good. It is embarrassing, but works. However one mistake I made was arguing how all the research says spanking doesn't work, it is old fashioned and that kind of thing. That backfired for me. Don't be critical in that way. Although I don't believe I was abused. I agree 100% with the comment by VoR. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: How to Get Parents to Stop Spanking You Author: ek [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 00:19:42 05/16/24 Thu How did it backfire Amara? She wanted to prove it was effective? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: How to Get Parents to Stop Spanking You Author: HH [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:29:59 05/14/24 Tue But why would you. Would you like more to be grounded. Not me. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: How to Get Parents to Stop Spanking You Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:02:58 05/14/24 Tue That's good point. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: How to Get Parents to Stop Spanking You Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:10:03 05/14/24 Tue When I was a kid and even a teen I wasn't grounded very often, I didn't get in much trouble, but when I did get grounded or had something taken away I HATED it worse than anything and it made me behave even worse. And just as soon as I got out of grounding I was determined to get back at them and be a terror to my parents and humanity. I pleaded with God or whoever was listening that my parents would just spank me and get it over with. The WORST thing was the guilt. Even as the guilt accumulated and no way to relieve it I acted worse and was more determined than ever to show how bad I really was. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: How to Get Parents to Stop Spanking You Author: Fran1587 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:17:22 05/14/24 Tue IMHO, the best way to get your parents to stop spanking you is to be respectful and obedient, I always told my daughters that it is up to them if they get spanked or not. If you follow the rules, you won't get spanked. Seems pretty simple to me, or is it? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: How to Get Parents to Stop Spanking You Author: JenniAnn [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:03:14 05/17/24 Fri So happy to see there are advices for how to make parents to stop spanking. While I am a truly spanko and love hearing other women share their spanking memories and experiences I do wish that no girl ever should have to endure the humiliating, shameful and painful spankings that I and sis got growing up. Being spanked as an adult is a completely different thing and I can really sometimes desire being crying and kicking over hubbies knees while he is tanning my big bottom like I did as a teenage girl. But I don't want any more teenage girl to experience this other than consenting spankings with their partners. I get so upset every time I see advice how children should be spanked etc so this was a nice change. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: How to Get Parents to Stop Spanking You Author: Ivy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:48:44 05/17/24 Fri Hi JenniAnn, Although looking back I think I benefited from the two young teenage years I was spanked, I believe I may have been the exception.Because of fortunate circumstances I was able to work through it and mature. I think am like my mother --anti-spanking but if all else has failed I would reluctantly try it. Ivy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: How to Get Parents to Stop Spanking You Author: Sophie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:54:16 05/18/24 Sat it might not sound like a BFD but it is to me. mom has agreed to put the paddle in a drawer if lil sis & I both don't get licks in the next 3 wks. the day she started the lickings mom hung the paddle on a wall where anyone can see it. so cringe. Today she told me she was proud of me over school & behavior & stuff. I asked for the millionth time if the paddle could come off the wall. she said if neither of us got licks for a month she would put it in a drawer. I real nice like pointed out I had not gotten licks for a month. she said sis has gotten two. but she agreed to 3 weeks. Sis better mind!!!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: How to Get Parents to Stop Spanking You Author: Rebecca [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:19:12 05/19/24 Sun Sophie, I think it is a big deal! I remember on the other forum how much you hated having that paddle on display, almost as much (if not more) than the paddle licks themselves! I have a sneaking mother's (grandmother's) intuition that was your mom's idea If your sister can't get with the program, soon you can just tell inquiring visitors it is there to keep your little sister in line! Congratulations and keep up the good work! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: How to Get Parents to Stop Spanking You Author: Ivy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:30:19 05/20/24 Mon One of my friends said that his parents hung the paddle on the inside doorknob of a bathroom. It must have been a bathroom guests used since he said how embarrassing it was. I don't think that is called for. But it sounds like you are successfully working through this, and soon (as Rebecca said) that paddle will only be used on one butt and that is not yours! Ivy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: How to Get Parents to Stop Spanking You Author: Alfred22 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:31:10 05/26/24 Sun A paddle on display makes a powerful statement: It says: This is a spanking household. The spankings here might well be paddlings. There is no secret that the paddle may come out and be applied near where it is on display! Since it is on display in public, there is the hint that even guests might feel it. Rarely is a paddle accompanied by a sign that reads: This spanking implement is for family residents ONLY! Sophie: Unfortunately your mother might well want guests to think that they might be eligible along with your sister or you. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]