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Subject: Re: Need help with self- spanking Author: Drew [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 08:03:44 04/20/24 Sat In reply to: Annie 's message, "Need help with self- spanking" on 16:08:45 01/03/24 Wed Self spanking is difficult for a few reasons. It begins with the need to discipline. So telling yourself why you deserve and need to be spanked is important to put you in the right mind set. Each is personal and individual. I suggest you begin as soon as you realize that you messed up and should be punished. Start with a simple firm statement. That was so bad you need a spanking." say it out loud even a whisper or in a full voice with the emotion you are feeling. it might not be appropriate at that moment to be spanked but you will have made the decision that it will happen. When it is time for the spanking again say it out loud. " you need to be spanked and your going to get it wright now!" You may add why you need it and more affirmation statements. Like " Such irresponsibility will not be tolerated. You have disappointment others and yourself with such behavior. this spanking will remind you of your responsibilities." Next is to get the implement and place it in front of you where you are going to be spanked. stare at it as you remove your clothes. it may be all of them or just the bottoms. I suggest a leather belt or 3 foot long natural fiber rope. you may add several strands of the rope. I find the belt the simplest because it is easy to purchase if you don't already have one. the next part is about swinging the belt so it is easy and affective, forceful. Standing up strait with tour feet together wrap the buckle end around your hand griping it securely. Use your dominant hand. cross our arm in front of you and measure out the distance the belt needs to strike around your hip and smack your furthest bottom cheek. this will be the same side as your dominant hand. the swing and stroke of the belt around and in front of you will be a natural motion and the end or tongue of the belt will snap forcefully against your bottom. after a few strokes you can then shorten the belt by wrapping it once more around your hand and the stroke will then land on your closer botto cheek changing the length every three strokes will give your bottom an all over even whipping. you won't be able to control where the belt lands exactly and that will also be more like a real spanking. spanking in sets of three will allow you to whip yourself with the belt a little harder each stroke. a slight pause to re adjust the stroke will allow you to catch your breath before you whip the other cheek again three times harder with each stroke. Not only will you concentrate on how smoothly you whip the belt around yourself but how hard you can do it and take it. The belt will whip you good and not always where you expected. you can adjust your aim and stroke a bit but you will never be sure. This adds to the realism of the whipping/spanking. you may find four strokes better than three. if your arm gets tiered take a break and stand in the corner still holding the belt, then repeat the whipping/spanking again. Three rounds will usually be very affective.and the break will give your bottom time to swell and be even more sensitive the next round. Also you may decide another whipping before bed will help you remember and experience the punishment again and be more lasting as you wake up and the reminder is still evident the next day. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]