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Subject: Dating and Curfew Author: Bob [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 13:57:28 02/26/25 Wed Many years ago, when I was in high school and dating I brought my girlfriend home well after her curfew. Her mother was not happy. She felt we should both be spanked and given lines. I did not agree. My mother did not agree. My girlfriend did get a good old fashion spanking and was given a large number of lines. By agreement with her and her mother, I did half the lines. So, I was punished also. Any comments? [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Dating and Curfew Author: Intrigued [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:05:14 02/26/25 Wed How would you describe this "good old fashioned spanking" that she got? Honestly, if you were the one driving and responsible and you arrived back well after her curfew, I DO think the honorable and correct for you to do is take the same punishment she got whether or not you agreed with it. But would it have been her mom that did it? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Dating and Curfew Author: Bob [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:55:52 02/26/25 Wed I did the driving but my date could have asked me to take her home at any time. She knew that. My date's mother felt that I should be spanked and she was willing to do it or have my mother do it. My mother felt that I did not deserve a spanking but I could have talked her into it, I think. I do not think I could have talked my mother into letting my date's mother spank me. In any case, I elected not to be spanked. I suppose it would have been the honorable thing to do but I did not want a sore bottom. I thought doing half the lines were fair. If my mother had said to me, you deserve a spanking and your date's mother should do it, I would have gone over there and taken my spanking. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Dating and Curfew Author: Intrigued [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:18:34 02/26/25 Wed So you are implying you did not know her curfew time? It is incumbent on a young man to KNOW THAT even before planning a date. I am not saying she was not a guilt party but I am saying she is not the only guilty party. What do you know about what you referred to as a "good old fashioned spanking?" You must have found out some details in order to call it that. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Dating and Curfew Author: Bob to Intrigued [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:50:57 02/26/25 Wed I knew her curfew time but I told her it was her job to remember. During the date, I forget about her curfew. If she said it was late and she had to go, I would have taken her home. I think, we were both at fault and we both deserved to be punished and we were both punished so justice was done. I do not remember the details about the spanking. Maybe it was bare bottom with a brush. I know she told me it hurt a lot. I suspect it was over the knee. If it was you, would you want to be spanked also? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Dating and Curfew Author: Intrigued [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:00:57 02/26/25 Wed From what you just wrote I am convinced you were both at least equally guilty but you somewhat more so for making her the responsible party. If she were my daughter she would not see you again. You were both punished but not unequally. While I cant spake for your mom, in your situation my son would have been sent to the girls mom for the spanking. I am sure I would not have wanted to be spanked. That is most certainly irrelevant to what I believe you deserved. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Dating and Curfew Author: Intrigued to Bob [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:06:30 02/26/25 Wed Are you the same Bob nearby below who commented on college spankings? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Dating and Curfew Author: Bob to Intrigued [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:38:19 02/27/25 Thu I am the same Bob show commented on college spankings. I got my last spanking at 19 for repeated curfew violations. At what age did you get your last one? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Dating and Curfew Author: Intrigued [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:42:08 02/27/25 Thu Hey glad you are back. My last was 16. You seem focused on spanking for curfew. violations. How old were you and your girlfriend when that happened? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Dating and Curfew Author: Bob [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:03:22 02/27/25 Thu As a teenager, I tended to stay out late, too late. I was 17 and she was 16 I think when the incident occurred. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Dating and Curfew Author: Intrigued [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:07:58 02/27/25 Thu If things had been different and you had been spanked by her mom, when would that have happened? Would she have seen and or watched it? What was her reaction when her mom sentenced her to a spanking and what did her mom say exactly? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Dating and Curfew Author: Bob [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:14:55 02/27/25 Thu I do not remember enough details to properly answer your questions. Sorry. However, she knew that she had a curfew and that missing it would likely result in a spanking. The same was for me but I made mine. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Dating and Curfew Author: Intrigued to Bob [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:10:26 02/27/25 Thu You wrote in another thread: "In high school, I knew a girl who got detention on purpose once. I believe the reason for this was that she knew a detention at school meant a spanking at home and she wanted a spanking." Is this the same girl you dated who you took home late well beyond curfew? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Dating and Curfew Author: Bob to Intrigued [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:16:19 02/27/25 Thu No [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Dating and Curfew Author: Louise Vancisic Vancisic [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:29:03 02/26/25 Wed Bob - Were you there to hear her getting spanked? If so, how did you feel? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Dating and Curfew Author: Bob [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:21:24 02/26/25 Wed I did not witness or hear any her get spanked. I was there when she was sentenced to be spanked. I did not feel good about her being spanked. I do feel we both deserved to be punished and she should have been spanked harder than me. However, I think I should have been spanked also. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Dating and Curfew Author: Intrigued [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:52:39 02/26/25 Wed If you are the same Bob, who wrote on the college spanking thread below, your mom sure came along in terms of spanking violations! Hmm. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Dating and Curfew Author: Intrigued [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:56:24 02/26/25 Wed For curfew violations, that is [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Dating and Curfew Author: Laura82 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:51:42 02/27/25 Thu I'm sorry but I don't agree at all. Whether either of you deserved a spanking would depend on your age and what's happened before but telling a girls boyfriend. she is going to get spanked NOOO I'd have thought grounding was more appropriate in nearly all cases. Was the boy as guilty? I don't know. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Dating and Curfew Author: Dana [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:16:34 02/27/25 Thu While I would have not liked being spanked — painful and way too embarrassing — I probably could not have resisted my girlfriend's mother wanting to spank me. To this day, I think I would remember what happened with great excitement. A mother who would actually spank her daughter's boyfriend is an exciting woman. However, the punishment must be deserved. If I knew there was a curfew, then I feel it would be my responsibility to make sure my girlfriend was home on time. I wouldn't want her getting in trouble. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Dating and Curfew Author: Intrigued [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:29:26 02/27/25 Thu Dana, 100%!!! Everything you said. I'd like to meet that mother! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Dating and Curfew Author: Rob [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:49:01 02/27/25 Thu I have to share that this topic has brought back a very humiliating experience maybe more so than the very blistered bottom I walked away with. It was just before college started a last year that pulled a similar, getting girlfriend back home long after curfew. She did, in fact, get a spanking for the curfew violation; however, I was deemed the one at fault because I was driving. Long and short is that I had to report to her mom the next evening and got a very sound spanking. My girlfriend did not see, but she did hear. After a long talking too, all with my mom's blessing, Mrs. B took me to the den to do the honors. It was awful. I was not late again. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Dating and Curfew Author: Intrigued [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:17:19 02/27/25 Thu This makes total sense that you were responsible and took responsibility for it. Would you be willing to describe that spanking in some detail? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]