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Subject: Re: Thea


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Thea
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Date Posted: 16:15:07 09/19/23 Tue
In reply to: Emmie Sue 's message, "Re: Thea" on 11:41:09 09/19/23 Tue

Yes, bathbrushes hurt. That's why they're one of my favorite implements. :) I've used them on myself as well, because I enjoy the sensation. I have a pretty high pain tolerance, though.

There will be a lot of dozens. Hundreds of swats, probably. Most of them won't be very hard, because I don't want her bottom going numb. I want her to feel it the whole time. I plan on pacing it carefully to avoid her getting too used to it or having it become absolutely unbearable.

I'll pull her panties down after she's laid across my lap in order to preserve some modesty. I'm not sure whether she'll wear pants or a skirt, though I think she usually prefers dresses and skirts. She may have to stand in the corner, depending on how she behaves. If she tries to throw her hands back, I'll hold her wrist. I work out, so I don't think there's any chance of her being able to pull away if I have her arm twisted behind her back. It's unlikely she'll try to squirm away, because that's not really what she's like.

Good girl! Keep that up. Studying is important.

I wouldn't be surprised if it were true. I've definitely met a lot of teachers in online forums and chatrooms related to spanking.

Thea is close to my real name, and a plausible nickname for my real name, but not one I usually use offline. I'm trying to maintain some anonymity. Emmie Sue is a cute name. It seems very Southern--so does some of your language, like "whooping".

In that situation, a few things would be negotiable based on what you need and want and what you're willing to accept. However, once you agreed to a certain set of rules and gave me authority over certain aspects of your life, I wouldn't allow you to withdraw that willy-nilly. For example, let's say we agreed that I would be in charge of a curfew. If you wanted to go out later than the curfew I set, you would have to ask permission. If I denied permission, you wouldn't be allowed to decide you no longer wanted me to set a curfew for you.

If, in that situation, you chose to disobey and stay out late anyway, I would take you over my knee and give you a good, hard spanking. After I finished spanking you, I would make you write an essay on the importance of honoring your agreements and why what you did was wrong. Not everyone likes the idea of essays or lines as consequences, but I think they're very effective for adults. (I wouldn't use writing as a punishment for children, because I don't want them developing negative associations with writing.)

There are certain rules I wouldn't negotiate because I view them as a requirement for living in my house and being under my charge. Which chores you would do would be negotiable, but doing them wouldn't be. If you slacked off on your chores without discussing why you needed a little leeway, you would get a reminder and a few swats. If you didn't immediately do your chores after the reminder, you would get an actual spanking.

You would have to spend a certain amount of time studying and show me your college portal regularly so that I could see which assignments you had due. If you turned anything in late, you would get a spanking and be on restrictions until you got back on track.

We would create a schedule together for you to follow. You would have to do a certain amount of studying every day and internet usage would be limited to specific break times until you had finished that day's studying and chores.

I would expect to be treated with respect and I would help you learn healthy communication skills. If you had a problem with any of the rules or expectations, I would be open to discussing it. I would not, however, tolerate rudeness. If we discussed something, my decision would be final. If it reached the point where you hated a choice I made, your options would be to accept that you didn't have to like it but you had to follow it, or to move out.

Consequences would involve spankings, corner time, essays or lines, and groundings. I also like the idea of mouth-soaping or hot sauce, but that one is more flexible.

Aside from the rules and consequences, I would also expect to have family-style dinners (which you'd be welcome to invite guests to) and regular activities like going to the museum or watching a movie together.

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Emmie Sue
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Date Posted: 18:36:25 09/19/23 Tue

OMG! OMG! OMG! When can I move in?!! It sounds like you would spank me over my pants with your hand, right? So, I'm kind of tall 5'9" but I'm kind of skinny so I don't think you'd have any trouble pulling me over your knees. Would you be sitting on a chair or a bed or a couch? How many spanks would I get? I mean, the only thing I really know about a spanking is what I've read or watched in videos, so I guess I don't really know how many spanks you would really get, I guess like dozens? Idk. I actually like writing essays. I actually do it as a hobby. Sometimes I write essays for other students. I agree, I don't think that's a good punishment for a child because I think they should be encouraged to write and be creative.
So, I don't even need to negotiate anything. Whatever you say. I will follow any rule you lay down, unless of course I decide to break them, ha ha. Okay, the chores might be an issue because, um...I don't always do my chores. Here's the funny thing though, when I'm at college I keep things really neat. My side of the dorm was always, well, not always but usually pristine, well, clean enough. I would always be cleaning up my roommates shit. I'd even get naggy about it. But at home doing my chores is always an issue.
I don't think there would be any problem with schoolwork. I keep up on it pretty well. I guess I do have a tendency to procrastinate and sometimes I get my assignments in late. I've heard of mouth soaping and seen it in videos, but I've gotten soap in my mouth and it doesn't seem too bad. It's pretty exciting to see it on video though.
I love going to museums and I LOVE movies and binge watching. I really like the idea of sitting really close to somebody who is older and maybe sort of an authority figure and watching movies. Maybe we would cuddle, if that's okay. Like especially after you gave me a good whoopin' and all was forgiven and a little later we watched movies and like you'd hold me real close. Nothing sexual, of course, unless you wanted to. I mentioned before about an older (much older) male friend who I sometimes hang out with. He has turned me on to a bunch of movies I would otherwise probably never have seen. sometimes I scoot real close to him and sometimes put my head on his shoulder. Unfortunately he usually asks me to give him some room. He's like the only male I would ever consider spanking me, I've actually given it a lot of thought, but he's so gentle and so kind and funny i don't think he would ever do that. Also he might take that as taking advantage of me and that I KNOW he would never do.

Other subjects; My name is Emmie Sue. I know it sounds like a Southern name, but we are like the opposite of southern. Susan (which I hate) is actually my middle name, named after my aunt and my parents have always just called me Emmie Sue. everybody has always called me that. My dad has some rhymes with my name. "Little Emmie Sue, who was no more than 2". That's taken from The Grinch. The older man I mentioned kind of reminds me of my dad. Oh and I just say 'whoopin' because I like the sound of it.

So, can your butt really go numb from a spanking? I've never known that before. So like you could be getting spanked and spanked so much that you don't even feel it anymore? I've heard about people getting spanked and they're fighting and crying until they finally just give up. It still hurts but they just can't fight anymore. I've also heard of people who know they are going to get a whoopin' and they are able to just kind of go into a zone and they just get it over with.

So your friend. Has she ever been spanked before? Will you do some kind of role play or just kind of be yourselves? I don't know if you know about this, but there's this thing called a 'safe word'. That's a word that if the spankee can't take it anymore she says the safe word. Usually if it's a real spanking or a mentor type punishment they don't use a safe word. Will you guys be using a safe word? Have you met F2F with her or just on line?

Okay, I've probably taken up enough of your time. Wouldn't that be weird if it turns out you live right down the street from me? Well, goodnight. I just gave you a hug.

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Thea
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Date Posted: 19:05:54 09/19/23 Tue

"It sounds like you would spank me over my pants with your hand, right?"

Haha, you're real cute. Maybe in some minor cases, like warning swats, but no. I'd use my hairbrush on you, generally, or possibly other implements depending on the misbehavior.

The location would vary. I think the typical spanking would happen in your bedroom, either on a chair or your bed. If you needed a few quick swats at home, I'd just pull you to me and spank you then and there.

I'm not sure about the number of swats. I would probably go based off your reactions rather than a specific number or length of time.

You claim doing your chores at home is an issue. I doubt it would be for long if you were living with me; I'd keep you in line and enforce the expectation. I'm sure that, with time, you'd learn to keep up with your chores. Not only to avoid being spanked, but because eventually you wouldn't want to disappoint me.

I wouldn't allow you to procrastinate. Missing deadlines is a nasty habit to get in. Allowing yourself to turn in schoolwork late shows a lax attitude towards deadlines and it's better to get ahead of that before you have a real job, where missed deadlines could result in being fired.

I'm very much a cuddler and I like the idea of hugging a well-spanked girl and petting her hair while she tries not to squirm on her sore bottom.

If you overwhelm the nerves, your butt can go numb, yes. Different people will go numb at different times/intensities.

She has been spanked before, but not recently or often. We'll probably just be ourselves to start, but might eventually do a roleplay. I am aware of safe words and she and I plan to use the stoplight system. If I were giving a real punishment spanking, my plan would be to allow them to use a safeword if they felt like it was completely unbearably overwhelming or if they needed to tell me something that couldn't wait, but it wouldn't get them out of their punishment. We would stop and take a moment to calm down or discuss whatever they needed to discuss, and then I would either finish their spanking or I would spank them the next day. It would only be a temporary reprieve.

I haven't met face-to-face with her yet, but we've video-chatted and talked on the phone.

The conversations are an enjoyable use of my time. It would be odd if you lived right down the street from me, but I think that's very unlikely.

Goodnight, sleep tight, don't let the bedbugs bite. ;)

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Berryblue
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Date Posted: 20:43:49 09/19/23 Tue

Hello, you mentioned you have a high pain tolerance was that from self spanking or getting spanked by someone? Do you have experience getting spanked as an adult?

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Thea
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Date Posted: 20:52:39 09/19/23 Tue

I have a high pain tolerance in general, but I was mostly referring to self-spanking in that particular comment. However, I bought a spanking machine online that I've used a few times. I'm not sure if it counts as self-spanking or not. 🤔 The reviews said other users couldn't handle more than the halfway intensity level, but I usually put it on the max. The closest I've gotten to "hard to tolerate" while using it was a 1/4" dowel cane. Aside from the machine and myself, I haven't been spanked as an adult. I would like to, eventually, but I would be picky about who I would allow to do it.

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Emmie Sue
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Date Posted: 19:02:38 09/20/23 Wed

LMFAO as this thread has gone from time machine to spanking machine. Sorry, I just found that funny.

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Thea
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Date Posted: 20:29:20 09/20/23 Wed

Sure, it's funny. Were you planning on replying to my longer reply to you or just this one?

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Emmie Sue
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Date Posted: 01:31:37 09/21/23 Thu

Oh yes, I planned to do that. I read it the night before and you told me to study and go to bed, so I did (well, I had to do something in between). I meant to reply when I was awake and alert yesterday. I will try again today.

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Emmie Sue
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Date Posted: 01:35:52 09/21/23 Thu

Actually I'm trying not to be on here as much as I have been lately.

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Thea
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Date Posted: 05:46:03 09/21/23 Thu

Ah, I see. I try to only start replying to messages on a forum if I'm ready to reply to all of the ones where someone was talking to me, so it doesn't look like I'm ignoring anyone or have overlooked their post.

Spending less time on forums is probably a good idea, though.

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Berryblue
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Date Posted: 06:17:12 09/21/23 Thu

Ohhh have always wanted a spanking machine, but finding a spanker would is 10x better, I'm pretty picky as well. The cane is such a mean implment, have never been caned but from videos it can do some damage!

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Emmie Sue
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Date Posted: 01:34:02 09/21/23 Thu

It sounds like I would be getting spanked 2 or 3 times a day. I'd never be able to sit down. I'll try to reply when I'm not so fuzzy.

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Thea
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Date Posted: 05:47:08 09/21/23 Thu

I'm not sure what you think would cause you to get spanked that often.

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Berryblue
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Date Posted: 06:19:20 09/21/23 Thu

Because she is very naughty, but I'm sure after getting spanked once she would be really good for a while!

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