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Subject: Spanking questions


Author:
Elsie
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Date Posted: 02:54:36 11/03/25 Mon

I'm in college. Unless it was a long time ago, as far as I know I've never been spanked. I've always been more than curious about it. I have some questions, please only answer if you really know. Please no fantasy answers.
How long does a spanking last?
Is it really different on pants, panties, bare bottom.
What does it feel like to have your bottom repeatedly smacked?
What is the worst instrument?
How long does the burn last?
What kind of a burn is it?
Does your butt hurt the next day?
Does it really change your behavior? Why are people so afraid of spankings?

Tia.

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[> Subject: Re: Spanking questions


Author:
Elsie
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Date Posted: 02:56:16 11/03/25 Mon

How red or bruised is your bottom?
How long does the redness or bruised last?

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[> Subject: Re: Spanking questions


Author:
BB
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Date Posted: 23:16:18 11/04/25 Tue

I really know, but not all spankings are equal. I only know what it was like for me, and how it was done to me. There are many variables in how a spanking is given.

How long does a spanking last?
It seemed much longer than it actually was. When I heard other siblings getting it, a spanking only took a minute or less.

Is it really different on pants, panties, bare bottom.
I don't know. It was always bare bottom.

What does it feel like to have your bottom repeatedly smacked?
The repetition is what makes it so painful. The same spots getting it again and again builds up the fire. However, the spanks were pretty fast and not spaced apart with any break. It became overwhelming. My mind and body would go kind of numb. I guess that's a natural defense mechanism.

What is the worst instrument?
We were not spanked with a large selection of implements to make comparisons. I thought the worst was the small wooden board. It was like a 12-inch ruler on steroids. The wood was very dense and hard.

How long does the burn last?
The burn during the spanking was what I imagine would be almost like sitting on a hot stove. I did not time it, but once the spanking was over, the hot numb feeling could last for maybe an hour before it was not that noticeable. A spanking by hand or some other implement would not be that bad or for that long.

What kind of a burn is it?
I think it depends on what you are spanked with. Wood that is hard but not too heavy applied with a snappy wrist creates an intensely sharp focused sting. Each stroke of a switch or cane is probably even more intense, but I would not know. I once felt a few licks from a leather belt, and that was a different sensation, hard to describe. The longer the paddle spanking lasts it is like fire. My mind was chaos, and all I could think of was desperately wanting it to stop. After the spanking, there was an uncomfortable tingle, but it felt more like my butt was an oven, not an intense burn but more of a radiant glow, like it would shine and light up the room in the dark.

Does your butt hurt the next day?
Usually not that much in my experience, but I've heard others say they "could not sit down." At worst it was sore to the touch the next day, and a weird warm feeling when sitting down for awhile, but not that bad. It looked worse than it felt.

How red or bruised is your bottom?
Checking in the mirror shortly after a paddle spanking, the lower half of my behind was cherry red, like I had sat on a bench where the paint was still wet. About as red as you can imagine red can be.

How long does the redness or bruised last?
The general redness faded in a few hours, but where the compact paddle had made maximum initial impact, it had left crimson to purple bullseye marks on the crowns of the cheeks. The marks would fade and turn other colors over the coming days, but could be visible for I think as much as a week.

Does it really change your behavior? Why are people so afraid of spankings?
I think a spanking has to be very painful to cause much fear. I was definitely afraid of getting one, not to mention extremely shamed and embarrassed. So it was something to think about when deciding how to behave. When I forgot to think about it, and got caught doing something spank-worthy, I was genuinely sorry about it.

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[> Subject: Re: Spanking questions


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JenniAnn
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Date Posted: 04:55:43 11/05/25 Wed

I assume that you refer to parental spankings and not spankings in DD or for pleasure. But even then I think there is a large variation among those who got spanked. Below are my answers which may not reflect at all how other experienced parental spanking.

1.How long does a spanking last?
I honestly don't know but my guess is most spanking were ongoing for about a minute. Which feels like forever when you are over the knees.

2.Is it really different on pants, panties, bare bottom.
As a child/teenager I only experienced bare bottom spankings except for when warning swats were given. But I tried later with a boyfriend how it would have felt. And being spanked with pants on hurts much less than being spanked bare bottom. But it can still hurt a lot. Panties gave some minimal protection but not more.

3. What does it feel like to have your bottom repeatedly smacked?
As a child/teenager, it was horrible feel, a mixed feeling of pain, stinging, anger, humiliation, embarrassment, shame, sometimes even agony.

4. What is the worst instrument?
The worst I experienced was the birch. Absolutely horrible!

5. How long does the burn last?
Depends on the spanking but the immediate pain dissappeard quite rapidly but the stinging I felt for hours, sometimes rest of the day.

6.What kind of a burn is it?
Don't know how to describe

7. Does your butt hurt the next day?
The time I got birched, yes. But I think that was only time.

8. Does it really change your behavior?
Difficult to tell, to some extent yes, question is whether you learned from it or if you were scared to death for misbehaving. I think these are very different things.

9.Why are people so afraid of spankings?
It hurts like hell, it is embarrassing as hell, it is humiliating as hell. I was so afraid that it happened several times that I peed myself in fear when I understood I was going to get it.

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Author:
Tim
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Date Posted: 07:47:43 11/06/25 Thu

JenniAnn:

Your responses come across as really genuine I have no doubt that you've experienced spankings as have I.

Three or four words sum it up and those would be:

Fear
Shame
Guilt
Humiliation

The physical pain from the spanking goes away but the 4 words above live on forever and become a bigger and bigger part of your life each time you get it.

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[> Subject: Re: Spanking questions


Author:
Grumpy
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Date Posted: 16:16:43 11/05/25 Wed

Survey for those willing: For those who got spanked at various times, were longer spankings with lighter swats worse than shorter ones with harder spanks? Was an implement on clothing worse than a hand on the bare? Was the humiliation of going over the knee when older worse than harder swats you might get when bent over or lying down?

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[> Subject: Re: Spanking questions


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laura82
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Date Posted: 18:04:16 11/05/25 Wed

Hi Elsie,
If you really want to understand don't forget the emotional side.
Of course it hurts but the big thing for me was that a person who normally loved me and protected was deliberately hurting me and worse still thought he had no choice becuase of my behaviour
I didn't cry when I broke my leg at 8 but I cried every time I went over dads's knee as a teen. I'm sure it didn't hurt nearly as much but

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Author:
Dana
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Date Posted: 18:46:52 11/06/25 Thu

A child will often make the most terrible fuss even if the spanking is not really that painful. It's in the mind. The fear is what makes it seem worse than it is, even traumatic, and as laura82 said, the momentarily broken relationship with the parent causes such painful emotions.

An adult being spanked will probably not feel the same as a child. The adult is aware of what is happening, and is able to process the experience more rationally. Some adults who are into spanking, and have been spanked before, can take what would be a severe spanking to a normal person, and not think it is hard enough. Pain that is desired and pain tolerance is not the same for everyone.

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[> Subject: Re: Spanking questions


Author:
CaringThroughAction
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Date Posted: 10:17:10 11/08/25 Sat

Very well said, Dana.

I found through my two mentoring experiences where consensual spanking was used on young adults, that at 18+ they can indeed appreciate and understand the rationale behind spanking. Which I guess is why when the accountability part of the mentoring process was discussed, they both agreed that spanking was the best. Both had been spanked at home before leaving for college and I think that had a big part to play. It was never something I asked them to submit to as a condition of being mentored, however.

The other takeaway was that I now no longer see spanking as a "kid's punishment". which I always had thought it was up till then. Spanking is a tool. Nothing more, nothing less. Now, for someone like Elise in college who had never been spanked before for discipline, it would be interesting to see how it would pan-out.

I have ran across many over the years like Elise, around that 18-21 age range, who were never spanked but were curious about it. I would assume in a disciplinary context, given forums like this.

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[> Subject: Re: Spanking questions


Author:
Caroline
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Date Posted: 16:50:52 11/08/25 Sat

Assuming you are talking parental spankings, I'll answer from the pov as a teenager.


1.How long does a spanking last?
Honestly don't know. It seemed like forever at the time but I would guess maybe a minute.

2.Is it really different on pants, panties, bare bottom.
Never got it on the pants other than warning smacks, I would say panties offer a little protection but not much.

3. What does it feel like to have your bottom repeatedly smacked?
The best way to describe it I would say is horrible; mixed feelings of pain, anger, embarrassment, shame, and sometimes agony.

4. What is the worst instrument?
From my experience the switch, followed by the belt.

5. How long does the burn last?
Depending on the implement and severity, anywhere from a few hours to into the next day

6.What kind of a burn is it?
Different depending on the implement and severity but not sure exactly how to explain it.

7. Does your butt hurt the next day?
The few times I got the switch yes, but other than that only maybe once or twice from a severe belt whipping from dad.

8. Does it really change your behavior?
I would say yes, it wasn't anything I wanted again anytime soon.

9.Why are people so afraid of spankings?
I would say the pain.

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[> Subject: Re: Spanking questions


Author:
Elsie
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Date Posted: 10:41:59 11/09/25 Sun

Thank you everyone for answering. It is very enlightening.

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