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Subject: Re: Rationalization


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Date Posted: 09:36:53 11/26/25 Wed
In reply to: Dana 's message, "Re: Rationalization" on 11:47:46 10/08/25 Wed
 Dana, I agree with you in that for some, spanking may not be the best method of correcting behavior. Every family is different... personalities, environment, closeness, etc. Some children and teens are never spanked and turn out just fine. Others in that category not so responsible and functional in the adult world.

It's important to listen to those with all experiences. Including yours, where there was a lingering resentment. It's good you forgave them. That does not mean you have to think it was "okay". It does however, free you from the emotional bondage that major resentment can have on us as people.
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