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Subject: Emotional Pain Author: Rainy [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 08:42:37 10/01/23 Sun After you received a spanking, what kind of emotional pain do you have? Did you at all suffer emotional pain? Did you feel sorry or angry? How did the emotional pain compare with the physical pain you received. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Emotional Pain Author: Karin_ven [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:50:55 10/01/23 Sun Good quiestian. I was spanked by Ann , my landlady ( long story, not for now) I never felt humiliated getting my bottom bared or being put over the knee. In my mind it was the way it was done and it was needed to give the spanking. What bothered me was facing Ann after the spanking, often it was the next day. Everybody in the family knew I got spanked so it was hard for me to face them. Sitting down at the breakfast table finding out that my behind was stil very sore. All moments that give a very awkward feeling that’s very embarrasing [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Emotional Pain Author: Rainy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:00:14 10/01/23 Sun The beauty of an spanking is that the physical and emotional pain suffered is only very temporary. Yes, the child's ego gets crushed, but it recovers. Do you think so? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Emotional Pain Author: Karin_ven [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:40:22 10/02/23 Mon Spankings where given in private. In my case there was never anyone present, but there where in the other rooms and in the house. We al know that a spanking makes a lot of noice, the slapping and the crying etc. So it was noticed. The stupid thing is that when someone else had a spanking I never looked strange to them, I never thought about how they cried or made a drama. What Lily says, the reaction crying and reaction is what made me feel ashamed while facing them. I could never take it in dignity And ofcours it didn’t last very long, live goes on and it was perhaps part of the punishment, if I behaved it didn’t happen. But on the quiestion “ emotional pain” that was my walk of shame. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Emotional Pain Author: Rainy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:33:16 10/04/23 Wed It is weird but some questions seem to overlap other questions. I would say that if spanking is done correctly in privacy, it is very beneficial to stop certain extreme misbehaviors. Example, suppose a child shoplifts. The parent could take the child to a private room and give an old fashion spanking to him or her. Then the child will unlikely shoplift again. The emotional and physical of a correctly done spanking is relatively minimal. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Emotional Pain Author: Alfred22 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:55:51 10/04/23 Wed Think long and hard about spanking for shoplifting. It could be a very bad idea IF the shoplifter was caught!! The shame and guilt could both be removed by the intense pain of a bb spanking! Especially if the hairbrush is used. Never underestimate how intense hairbrush strokes can be, especially when carefully located. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Emotional Pain Author: Rainy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:39:37 10/04/23 Wed The spanking after a certain amount of time ceases to be painful, but the lesson is taught with the individual avoiding to do certain behaviors that has serious negative consequences. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Emotional Pain Author: Rainy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:22:10 10/04/23 Wed I can picture Mom putting on the air conditioning unit to drown out any crying. The she tells her Mom, "I will never do it again." Then Mom gently opens her pants and say without an angry tone, "I know you will not." But after the spanking, Mom and she cover up everything that happened almost as if the daughter was born a real angel. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Emotional Pain Author: JenniAnn [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 00:10:53 10/06/23 Fri I remember feeling humiliated, diminished and very sorry for myself after being spanked across mom's or dad's knees. And I also felt anger as I felt I was punished way too harsh. But as an adult, I have no such feelings after a punishment spanking from my husband. I feel embarrassment but that I deserved it and he is very good in comforting me afterwards. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Emotional Pain Author: Rainy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:59:42 10/09/23 Mon I am not sure why I have a kink to this question. I am sort of embarrassed that I do. I recalled getting one big spanking which gave me very intense physical and emotional pain. Although I was a small child when I got the spanking, I recall I felt a very deep humiliation getting an old fashion spanking. But I obviously blamed myself for earning it. After the spanking was over, I was put to bed. I cried a lot, but my mother came into my room and said "do you want more." Fearing that I would get another spanking, I said, "no, no" Then I quietly fell asleep. No one was there to comfort or hug me as my feelings were so much hurt. Perhaps, I was "overspanked" that evening. All that was necessary was to give only 5 sharp slaps on my bottom. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Emotional Pain Author: Rainy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:07:21 10/09/23 Mon I am not sure why I have a kink to this question. I am sort of embarrassed I do. I recall getting one big spanking which gave me very intense physical and emotional pain. Although I was a small child when I got the spanking, I recall I felt a very deep humiliation getting an old fashion spanking. But I obviously blamed myself for earning it. After the spanking was over, I was put to bed. I cried a lot, but my mother came into my room and said, "Do you want more." Fearing that I would get another spanking, I said, "no, no" She retorted, "Then stop" and left the room. Then I quietly fell asleep all alone in the room. No one was there to comfort or hug me as my feelings were so much hurt. Perhaps, I was "overspanked" that evening. Instead of the big spanking I got making my bottom an angry red color, I should have only received 5 sharp slaps on my bottom. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Emotional Pain Author: Alfred22 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:53:41 10/10/23 Tue What a sad story, Ms. R. I wish something could be done. As adults liked to joke when they spanked the non-guilty kid, the unSpanking machine was not working today! Maybe a big hug from your partner? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Emotional Pain Author: Rainy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:15:05 10/11/23 Wed Children cannot always be protected from bad experiences. Nevertheless, I have conflicting thinking about the spanking I received. On one hand, it is possible I was "overspanked" which probably overwhelmed me at the time. On the other hand, I misbehaved and needed to receive a spanking. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Emotional Pain Author: Karin_ven to Lilly [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:36:37 10/13/23 Fri Sorrie, I just was reading your post. Yes the walk of shame going to my room was also in our house. We got spanked after diner in the kitchen. After it I had to walk true the living room to go to the stairs to go to my room. There was always someone watching TV or something. All spankings where given in the same way so when I heard one of the other girls getting spanked I could imagen how it looked like. Later they had to walk true the living to. Mostly stil crying and a very red behind. But like myself they don’t look to the left or right. The next morning it was hard for me to face everyone, especially Ann (landlady) Often I had a little trouble sitting, wich was noticed and Ann sometimes said something. But the spanking was noticed again, but now I was not crying and was very aware of the punishment I had the day before. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Emotional Pain Author: Colin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:03:49 10/14/23 Sat People sometimes say that the embarrassment lasts only a short time after the punishment, but I cannot accurately express in words how it feels to be spanked naked in front of an opposite sex witness who is close to your age. Humiliation is an understatement. Emotional pain is an understatement. It completely crushes your ego and it's something you never ever forget. Spankings were painful, yes, but it's the pain that goes away. Knowing that my sister or girls a couple years older or younger saw my penis hurt my soul. When my cousin was strapped bare bottom in front of me and my sister in the standing position, the fact that my sister saw his nakedness was something he never ever recovered from. When my sister was given a bare bottom hand spanking in front of me and our cousin, I know for a fact it was one of the most, maybe the most emotionally painful events in her childhood and it was because she was forced to bare her genitals in front of us. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Emotional Pain Author: ts92 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:13:35 10/14/23 Sat I always felt angry with myself for putting my mom into the position of having to spank me. No anger toward mom ever.We were brought up that she was doing what she felt right and necessary for us. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Emotional Pain Author: Rainy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:01:42 10/15/23 Sun In some families, females and males often see each other naked. No one is actually embarrassed. Spanking as punishment can make a child or teen feel humiliated and embarrassed. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Emotional Pain Author: ts92 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:42:05 10/15/23 Sun Just telling you how it worked in our family. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Emotional Pain Author: Rainy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:37:57 10/15/23 Sun In a sense, after the spanking, you felt that you humiliated and embarrassed yourself. Next time, you were extremely careful not to repeat the behavior that got you spanked. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Emotional Pain Author: Nick [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:07:24 02/14/24 Wed After a spanking, I felt very sorry for myself that I got spanked. I would always be sent to bed for the rest of the evening to cry it off. The physical pain was overwhelming during the actual spanking and I would truly cry my eyes because of it. I wouldn't get much sleep so I would lay in bed and think about why I got spanked. The next morning I still would have a sore bum, and mom would explain to me that she would spank me whenever I misbehaved. That would be the end of it. No sympathy but it's not like I deserved any anyway. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]