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Subject: Re: Should a man spank his wife?

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Date Posted: 22:18:16 10/21/23 Sat
In reply to: Regular Guy 's message, "Should a man spank his wife?" on 11:47:12 10/21/23 Sat

I could just as easily tell you that when a pair of oxen are yoked together, they both need to pull just as hard as each other in order to move forward the most effectively.

But a household isn't a car, and a human partnership isn't the same as two oxen. Metaphors don't work in this situation. People are too varied for a vast generalization on the most effective way for people to partner to work. Some women need a man who will take charge and let them focus on following or serving. Some women need a man who will let them lead. Many women need a man whose strengths balance out her own, and who can lead and follow in different situations.

(And some women need other women or to have only friends rather than romantic partners.)

I would never tolerate a man who thought he had the right to discipline me, though neither would I put up with a man who needed external discipline of his own. I strive for self-actualization and am always working to better myself in every situation. Any person who has the time or energy to focus on attempting to improve MY behavior isn't spending enough time focusing on improving their own, they would slow me down. And I could never like, let alone love, someone arrogant enough to believe they knew how I should be living better than I do.

Not all of the women and girls posting here are bottoms and even amongst those that are, I think few appreciate generalized misogyny. You can want a lifestyle domestic discipline relationship with a submissive woman, you can even have a fetish for your wife "needing" to be disciplined "because she's a woman", without making it "men have a right to discipline their women".

This probably isn't the forum for you.

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[> Subject: Re: Should a man spank his wife?
Author: O.H.M. [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 05:06:16 10/22/23 Sun If that is the arrangement they have in their relationship and both parties agree to it from the onset that is acceptable. Otherwise, unless you are living in a caveman colony it is under no circumstances acceptable. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]