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Subject: People who get spanked

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Emmie Sue

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Date Posted: 06:27:20 12/30/23 Sat

Okay, I know with my last post I said I was going to get off the interweb and get on with my chores, but I just thought of something else.

I said "I'd better get those done or my mom is going to give me a spanking." So, when I was growing up and even now, that thought crosses my mind and I get a little shiver, but not really. That was all just in my brain I think because, I guess I wanted to know what that was like. It was NEVER in my world. It just wasn't our culture. I suppose there were a few veiled threats growing up, but nothing I ever took seriously. But I remember kids would even say that and I know for at least half the kids I knew and maybe even teens, that was their culture. If they didn't behave or didn't do their chores or got into some trouble they KNEW they were going to get a spanking. So I always wondered what that was like.

I knew if I did get in some big trouble I was going to be met with disapproval. I think that made my stomach turn even more than any threat of a spanking would. If my mom ragged me about cleaning my room or something (even still) I came back with some snarky response and nothing happened. I KNOW there were kids and teens who would have gotten a big butt whoopin' if they talked to their parents like that.

so, that leads to my question; For those of you who did grow up like that, knowing you were gonna get it when you got home, what was growing up that way like? In the reverse of me, did you fantasize about your parents letting you get away with everything? In retrospect are you glad you grew up like that? Do you, as an adult wish you had grown up more like me? Do you think knowing that you would get a whoopin if you did something bad harm you in any way?

Okay, now I'm done.

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[> Subject: Re: People who get spanked

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Emmie Sue
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Date Posted: 06:31:38 12/30/23 Sat

One last question; I am kind of a self motivator, although I do tend to procrastinate, but seriously, I work better under pressure of a deadline. Not because of any discipline I might face, but both my parents are self motivators and do-ers.
Do you think that growing up with spankings helped or hindered you in adult life for having self control and self motivation?

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[> Subject: Re: People who get spanked

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HH
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Date Posted: 07:39:11 12/30/23 Sat

I get spanked for everything. My mom spanks me everyday. not really but it seems like it. when I get in trouble i know I'm gonna get spanked. Sometimes I can't help things I do. I don't talk bad to my mom. sometimes I do because it just comes out and I get my butt beat. I clean pretty good and take care of my little sisters but sometimes I don't feel like it and I get spanked. I feel like I'm the only person who still gets spanked but I think other people I know still do. I don't think I like getting spanked but I kinda do. It's not that bad I gess because I hate being grounded so I think I rather be spanked then grounded.

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Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 17:09:38 12/30/23 Sat Aw, poor thing. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: People who get spanked

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Marsha
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Date Posted: 18:17:09 01/01/24 Mon

I remember self-identifying as "a spanked girl" because spankings were my stepmom's preferred punishments for me. Getting spanked was just a part of growing up and there was nothing I could do but take it.
It did make me feel childish and was very embarrassing (especially into my teens) but "bad girls" got spanked and that's exactly how I felt getting it.
Your question about "knowing I was going to get it when we got home" is separate because it was rare, but trust me, it was miserable! Waiting to be spanked at all is awful but like when I was 12 and acted up shopping I was told "You are getting a spanking as soon as we get home."
My face was red, my eyes filled with tears, my bottom itched and ALL I could think about was how my bare buns were going to be up over the lap and set on FIRE!

I smiled at your question about wishing I could "get away with anything" because it was so outside my experience I can't imagine it. Like what would I even do? LOL

HH, I'd love to hear more about your situation.. Age etc? Ask me anything.

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[> Subject: Re: People who get spanked

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Paul
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Date Posted: 18:00:40 01/02/24 Tue

Knowing you were going to get it when you got home was nerve wrecking just as knowing you'd be grounded when you get home is nerve wrecking or waiting on anything else you hate, I'd get a pit in my stomach, waiting on spanking's was terrible.

I wouldn't fantasise about my parent's letting me get away with *everything* but I must admit I did fantasise about some stuff, how could you not?

Typically it'd be spurred on by finding out another kid was allowed to do it (especially if they were the same age as me or even worse younger!) then it just didn't feel fair at all, could drive me crazy!

One thing I remember was when I found out other kids were allowed up later on the weekends (my bedtime was the same 7 days a week) and I *HATED!* that.

Another was them being allowed to watch horror movies or other things deemed "inappropriate" or "not allowed" for me, I hated hearing those words when other kids even younger than I am could just have some freedom determined by some random draw at birth so my fantasises were more for some sense of equal treatment/rules or access to something I would enjoy, I didn't fantasise about "causing trouble" or being allowed to hurt anyone or anything like that really.

I don't think knowing that I would get a "whoppin" as you call it, if I did something bad harmed me in anyway to be honest however I am not some avid supporter either who thinks I'd be out knifing people if I didn't get spanked.

I find it hard to gauge if spanking's helped or hindered me in adult life in having self control, how could I know that self control and self motivation comes from spankings? it certainly helped and sure as hell didn't hinder motivation growing up though but not sure about long term benefits or determents regarding that.

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